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Grimreapr476
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 Posted: 01/27/07 - 20:48 Post subject: female masturbation problem, cannot orgasm or enjoy masturba |
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i am 14 year old female and just started masturbating around 5 months ago when i couldnt stand the crave any longer. i discovered the sexual desire not too long before i started masturbating and well now im wrapped in a sticky situation. a shy guy likes me and keeps flirting with me, i really like the guy too and havent seen him since its the weekend. well i havent stopped thinking of him since and its driving me insane. i am aroused all weekend and i cant focus for anything (which is really ruining my writing) i tried to masturbate multiple times but it never felt satisyfying, i just felt hungry (sexually) afterwards. i have never orgasmed and cannot figure out y. i know masturbating is prefectlly normal and i dont listen to me religion (which claims masturbation is evil) i know i have low self esteem and i really never liked myself, but is this a cuase for my lack of enjoyment? is it the constant 3 years of bullying during middleschool that destroyed my masturbation? does anyone know how i can fix this?  |
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Sweetcarol
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| Posted: 01/27/07 - 21:04 Post subject: |
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| well first of all having bad thoughts while masturbating probally wont help with getting pleasure, you need to clear your mind and think of relaxing and sexy things, anything that might turn you on or even look at porn or read somthing sexy while your masturbating. then once you start doing that you need to make sure ur doing it correctly, stimulating ur clit by rubbing it or using a vibrator and maybe try sticking a few fingers in ur vagina and moving them around. somtimes reaching an orgasm can be tough, if you cant reach one dont feel bad and just keep trying but try not to think so much about it. using a vibrator of some sort can really help reach orgasm, a back massager, electric tooth brush, cell phone, and other sorts of things that vibrate could really help. also dont try putting these things into your vagina, just place them on ur clit and possibly move it up and down or rub it agnist ur clit. well i hope i helped some, life can be tough.....i have many problems of my own but masturbation really relives stress for me so i hope it helps for u. gl |
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| Posted: 05/14/07 - 17:22 Post subject: |
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| A great technique is also placing yourself under the running water in your bath tub. Fingering and playing with myself never gives me pleasure no matter what I think about. I hope this helps you. |
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| Posted: 11/30/07 - 17:05 Post subject: ok |
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| ok just dont masturbate then |
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