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codedblu
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 Posted: 03/06/07 - 23:17 Post subject: female mutual masterbation with friend... |
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| for the last year or so, my friend (we're both 20) and i have been manually stimulating/masterbating each other by facing each other with our legs intertwined. we rub up and down on each others legs... before this happens we are usually rubbing and touching each other's breasts and massaging each other. i know this is kind of detailed, but the thing is, we have never talked about it. it usually happens when we're spending the night at each other's houses and then after we've been asleep for a while. should i bring this up to her, we both act like it never happened. what do i do? and what does this mean? i just don't want to ruin our friendship... i'm totally confused about this. is this normal for heterosexual female friends to ever do?!? |
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beeef
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Persionaly i think u should not talk 2 her, because if u r bolth straight than their iz nuttin rong. As for being normal i dont no butmaby u and yer friend r just relly open and all women (straight or gay) have theas fealings.  PEACE OUT!!!! |
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| Posted: 03/07/07 - 16:10 Post subject: |
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| beeef wrote: | | Persionaly i think u should not talk 2 her, because if u r bolth straight than their iz nuttin rong. As for being normal i dont no butmaby u and yer friend r just relly open and all women (straight or gay) have theas fealings. PEACE OUT!!!! |
Yeh, it coudl be just animal getting off. It does sound rather tender and lesbo though. It doesn't matter. Do what feels good and don't label yourself one way or another. If you are nervous then it is just as much up to your mate to talk about it as you so leave it to her if you like. |
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codedblu
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| Posted: 03/07/07 - 19:09 Post subject: |
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| yeah, but here's the thing, my friend NEVER is the first to bring ANYTHING up. for anything kind of uncomfortable, she usually lets other people bring it up first... but really don't know if i should/want to... |
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| Posted: 03/07/07 - 19:12 Post subject: |
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| What is it you want to say? You want to do it more often? You want to know if she wants a relationship? Whether she is gay/bi? Is there anything that actually needs to be said? |
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codedblu
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| Posted: 03/08/07 - 00:08 Post subject: |
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| i just wonder why we never bring it up. like never acknowledge it.... |
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| Posted: 03/08/07 - 19:07 Post subject: |
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| Ste wrote: | | beeef wrote: | | Persionaly i think u should not talk 2 her, because if u r bolth straight than their iz nuttin rong. As for being normal i dont no butmaby u and yer friend r just relly open and all women (straight or gay) have theas fealings. PEACE OUT!!!! |
Yeh, it coudl be just animal getting off. It does sound rather tender and lesbo though. It doesn't matter. Do what feels good and don't label yourself one way or another. If you are nervous then it is just as much up to your mate to talk about it as you so leave it to her if you like. |
Hey, im not sure how long its been going on but if your that close and its apparently bothering you that its never mentioned maybe try talking a little right after it happens one night.... Or if you guys ever have a few drinks and you feel like its a good time to bring it up and not seem totally uncomfortable since youve both had a few drinks... that type of situation, yanno?
Theres nothing wrong with it, I hope you dont feel dirty or anything like that, but definately work on getting to a point where it can be talked about amongst the two of you. Chances are shes having the same thoughts and feeling nervous in the face of day just as you are.
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| Posted: 03/09/07 - 06:56 Post subject: |
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| Do you talk during it? If not, that might be a good start. Saying that it feels goodor whatever. Then afterwards, say something jokey like "that hit the spot" or something that will make you both giggle and take it from there. |
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| Posted: 03/09/07 - 19:04 Post subject: |
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| we really don't talk or anything during it either. and here's the thing, lately it's just seemed like she's kinda distant to me too, and i keep thinking that maybe it's because all of that... i'm not sure. i don't mind it when that stuff happens between us, but then afterwards i'm really not sure what to think. it's kind of a vicious cycle for me. but, some good advice from you guys so far, thanks... |
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| Posted: 03/09/07 - 19:10 Post subject: |
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| codedblu wrote: | | we really don't talk or anything during it either. and here's the thing, lately it's just seemed like she's kinda distant to me too, and i keep thinking that maybe it's because all of that... i'm not sure. i don't mind it when that stuff happens between us, but then afterwards i'm really not sure what to think. it's kind of a vicious cycle for me. but, some good advice from you guys so far, thanks... |
I know you guys dont really talk about it, its a tough situation, especially now that you feel like it might be making her distant. Maybe its time to stop doing it, stop creating the situation for it to happen i.e. sleepovers!! lol
And see if it breeches the drift your feeling.
I dont think an orgasm is worth losing a friend over, yanno...?
Good luck! |
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