fingering hazards, help! ASAP

angel girl08 · Newbie Joined: 07 Jun 2006 Posts: 2

okay...i need some sort of guidance or info. I'm 16 years old girl and very clueless Cuz well i'm a newbie with having a b.f It's been about 5 months since i have gotten with my b.f., he's my first real relationship. And he's very liberal....and i have been raised in the old fashion modest ways. Mainly cuz i'm catholic, i respect my religion to a point. But however me and my b.f recently got to third base...and its rather scary. Cuz i'm enjoying it but i'm wondering if there are any medical hazards that can occur due to fingering.
i make him wash his hands and keep his nails trimmed...but still
i'm very clueless with this whole aspect of this, and i'd really really appreciate some info....cuz i don't want to get anything weird and whatnot

and how do i know if i'm still a virgin...cuz i heard fingering can rupture the hymen....and for me that's not good...mainly due to my parents

and....recently today i have developed cramps due to the fingering my b.f did to me....i'm really worried...it mayb be my period cuz its due to coming soon..but still...i normally never get cramps...

crzyfl · Veteran Joined: 07 Apr 2006 Posts: 1164

Hi. As long as his hands are clean and his fingernails are trimmed there is no problems with fingering.
You can't lose your virginity from fingering - only from penetration sex. You may rupture the hymen, but this is not losing virginity.
I would say that the cramping is from your impending period as fingering is not known to cause cramps.
Hope this helps

fingering hazards, help! ASAP

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