getting pregnant after oral

renault · Newbie Joined: 15 Jun 2005 Posts: 14

Hey there! For the first time my boyfriend and I had oral sex last night. It was so great, and I think he liked it as well because he cum into my mouth and I swelled it. It was strange and sweet. Anyway, I wanted to know if it is possible to get pregnant like this. Thx!!!

aileen · Newbie Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 18

Hi there girlie!!! There is no way you could have gotten pregnant from oral sex if your genitals didn’t come in contact and there was no exchange of semen. However, you could have both gotten some of the STDs, so next time I would suggest a condom!!!!

Abbalissa · Guest

Honey....there is no way on Gods Green Earth.....But you could have obtained an STI....which I would say is much worse.....so yea....condoms are a goooooooood idea. Very Happy

DR by trade · Guest

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Hey there! For the first time my boyfriend and I had oral sex last night. It was so great, and I think he liked it as well because he cum into my mouth and I swelled it. It was strange and sweet. Anyway, I wanted to know if it is possible to get pregnant like this. Thx!!!
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There is no way you can get pregnant, However it is the easiest way to get an STD... HIV for example. I suggest a blood test not to determine if you're pregnant but to see if you have an STD.... cause trust is not the only thing. if you love yourself, USE A CONDOM NEXT TIME.

CharlieJ · Posted: 01/02/07 - 16:42 Post subject:

Hmmm, another teenager who can't even spell correctly and doesn't know what causes pregnancy, yet she engages in sex. Whatever happened to morality and responsibility?!?

Young lady, you need to stop the cycle you started last night. There is no such thing as "safe sex", so don't let anyone tell you that lie. Condoms break, leak or cause other issues. The pill is not 100% reliable and can lead to issues when you're older. Abstinence is the ONLY way to make sure you don't get pregnant, don't contract a sexually transmitted disease (STD) and don't end up with severe emotional or physiological issues often associated with teen sex.

If your boyfriend doesn't like you because you won't do it, then he's not worthy of you. You see, God gave you a gift that you can only give ONE TIME. It was meant to be shared with your husband AFTER you are married, not in the backseat of a car, a friend's couch or under the bleachers.

Think it over -- it could mean your life. You can wait. Millions do -- and they never have to worry about the things you're fretting over right now.

fireandice · Newbie Joined: 05 Jan 2007 Posts: 1

I agree with the fact that a person should get more advice on these matters before engaging in them. However, I do not feel like judging a person for the things they've done is a good way to get a point across. As a high school teacher, I see these situations day after day. STD's, pregnancy, students too afraid to tel their parents what they've done (both girls and boys). I'm not going to judge you for not knowing you could not get pregnant from oral sex, but I will offer some advice. "If you don't want anyone to know, don't do it." I say that because Herpes, Syphillis, warts, and pregnancy will ALL show themselves to your friends and family if you contract them through oral/vaginal sex. Then you will have no choice but to talk to an adult about these matters. If you have the opportunity, ask an adult to sit with you and open up about the questions you are unsure of regarding sex. It may be uncomfortable, but it woould be alot worse telling them AFTER the damage is done.

Guest · Guest

omg! I cant believe that there are still such narrow minded people trying to give young people of the present generation 'sex-advice' in such away.

'marriage?' 'God?'

"CHRIST ALMIGHTY!" thats what i say

Just make the poor girl feel stupid and think that she is degrading herself!

As somebody who is 'of this generation' and on this planet might I add, may I offer you some advice (to the young lady asking for the advice not an R.E. lesson).

DO NOT FEEL ASHAMED HUN!!! If you are above the legal age of concent (16yrs of age) you've done nothing wrong, if you feel emotionally ready to do this. Only you know this!
It is a very personal thing and nobody should feel the right to judge you

Obviously you will have established that you cannot get pregnant from oral sex... however, you can get some really awful sti's from part taking in this so even though it feels bizzare ask him to put a condom on (you can get ones free of spermacide so they dont taste fowl and you can also get flavoured ones)

I understand that if you are young, buying condoms and going to see your g.p. or family planing clinic can be a daunting and embarrassing prospect.
It is like this for anybody; but you dont need to feel embarrassed, you should be proud that you have the guts to go in there and take care of yourself.

it should be an incentive to go through the embarrassment factor when you think of what lies ahead; Herpes, Syphillis which are extremely unpleasant! and also Pregnancy; do you really want to go through the ordeal of an abortion? It might seem like an easy thing to you now but Ive spoken to women in their 40's full of regret.
And from personal experience even the morning after pill can make you feel un-well and it messes up your monthly cycle so it makes it even harder to detect if you've missed a period in the future (say you have a dreaded accident) so condoms really seem like a no brainer to me!

Theres no excuse to not use them you can get round the allergies- spermacide free, latex free. Round the pleasure factor- lots of varieties...
Don't let him tell you that it ruins the feeling of pleasure for him- from what ive disscussed with other male friends it makes very little if no difference, and you have alot more consequences to live with unfortunately.

I really do recommend that you go and see your G.P. they will not inform your parents! You can request a female nurse or doctor and they will discuss any sexual issues or answer questions you have.
Dont be embarrassed either cos they do this every day.

There are also websites that you can look at to get clued up on sexual health and contraception:

ruthinking.co.uk
bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health
likeitis.org.uk/

also google 'sexual health' and lots of things come up.

But at the end of the day, all the people here can do is advise you, or give you an opinion. You dont have to take any notice, i would usually say that was a bad idea with a few exceptions.

All I would like to say to end my 'waffle' is, keep yourself safe and protected, in the know, and ENJOY IT! thats what it is for.

Good luck sweety, some people dont give teenagers enough credit Very Happy

tazmania2ke · Newbie Joined: 25 Feb 2007 Posts: 1

Idiotic_teen · Newbie Joined: 10 Mar 2007 Posts: 30

No sweety, i'm sure you know by now you can't... but... it would be a good idea to get your boyfriend tested before you do anything oral. and... condoms are a good bet too! and...uh... dont explain what it taste like. We don't wanna know. But hey! I'm a dumb ass too! so it's all good. heh.. but that was a pretty weird question.

LANITA · Newbie Joined: 14 Mar 2007 Posts: 2

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