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girl masturbation! How do I have an orgasm?

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Kelsey Jo
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PostPosted: 04/01/07 - 23:22    Post subject: girl masturbation! How do I have an orgasm? Vote now! Reply with quote

im not sure if im doing it right..
ill get in the tub and feel the water running on me and it makes me shake and sometimes hurt and ill stop. should i be stopping?? i just cant get horny doing stuff. ive tried everything. i really need help because i want to at least have an orgasm. i cant even do that. PLEASE HELP
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PostPosted: 08/13/07 - 19:15    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

Hey, try humping pillows, like start off slow and then go fast and then slow and then fast or find a pace you like and keep to it and it should help. my email is *********i'm having some same troubles as well. i hope this will help

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PostPosted: 08/14/07 - 05:33    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

It might help to find your clit and then rub maybe an icecube over it. Also, gently rub your nipples as that should stimulate you. Myself though I started off with pillows ... but I don't think it's something you should force coz when you force it, it won't happen.
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PostPosted: 09/16/07 - 02:27    Post subject: Help for masterbation for girls Vote now! Reply with quote

Put yourself in the mood with soft music, candles, sexy scents, or anything else that turns you on. From my experience, using a vibrator works well without lubricant. By slowly circling the vibrator around the clitoris it helps to bring a gradual arousal. As the orgasm is building you can also stimulate the nipples by pinching or lightly touching them. Don't be in a rush to go to orgasm, go slow and pause. By doing this you can build up to an even greater orgasm. Sex toys can be very helpful.

Enjoy.
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PostPosted: 10/07/07 - 19:08    Post subject: Reply: Girl Masterbation Vote now! Reply with quote

HI im 14 too and i started masturbating when i was 12 or so and at first i thought it was weird and i felt guilty. And i also thouht that no other girls did it that young. But then i started to realize that everyone was okay with guys masterbating young, But when it came to girls they'd think it was weird. And i thought it was unfair. But after reading the postings on this webbsites im starting to feel better about it Very Happy.
If you other girls have other quetions im free to answer them :DDD.

P.S. my myspace is ***********
JUST IN CASE! :]
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PostPosted: 10/11/07 - 20:46    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

i know it sounds like a "guy thing" but try porn. Not hardcore stuff but just videos of people kissing or erotic stories. it helps you get horny
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PostPosted: 06/24/08 - 02:49    Post subject: Getting An Orgasm Vote now! Reply with quote

The first time i started masturbating was when i was 12,too,and i didn't know there was a name for it.When i started masturbating i didn't get that feeling of comfort,so each night i kept trying.My mother's room was right next to mine so i had to be careful.lol.Now im living in a new house and my mother's room is all the way across the house so i don't have to worry as much.Well,this is how u get an orgasm:Watch porn like demoucheron said.It gets you horny and it makes your clit tingle.And once your clit gets wet you pull down your shorts and move some of the wet stuff up to the top off your clit and start rubbing it.If you watch porn while you masturbate,it'll feel much better.I've tried to stop mastubating,but since im a virgin i have to because i get a little horny at times! Embarassed Well i hope i could be of some help!HAVE FUN LMAO!
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PostPosted: 06/30/08 - 00:45    Post subject: Vote now! Reply with quote

Kelsy Joe,
If you're masturbating in the bathtub with the water running on you, and you're getting so worked up that you shake, you're probably having an orgasm. But you might also just be in a state of heightened arousal, so worked up that additional stimulation or touching can hurt.

High sexual arousal can blur that line between pleasure and pain. Hense the line in the song , "Hurts so good".

If you're not getting horny doing stuff, well, maybe it's not the right time for you. Our body responds best when we're relaxed and into it. If you're not into it, don't push it. Wait til later.

There's no law that says you HAVE to masturbate.
There's no law that says you HAVE to have an orgasm.

It's just nice when it happens and you know that you can cause it when you want it.

Relax.
Don't worry about it.
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