guilt feeling after masterbaiting

i get a guilt feeling after i'm done masterbaiting... i don't feel this way when i'm masterbaiting though... i feel guilty for doing it and then i'm not interested in girls anymore for a period of time... is this normal?

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spazz wrote:

i get a guilt feeling after i'm done masterbaiting... i don't feel this way when i'm masterbaiting though... i feel guilty for doing it and then i'm not interested in girls anymore for a period of time... is this normal?

hey that happens to me to dont worry its ok itll go away when u get a gf ull love it trust me i was just like u

Hey, I am 19 f and haven't orgasmed yet during masturbation because of guilty feelings as well. The thing is that religion is a great book and all, but they are guidelines for how to live your life better. Just cause it says to stone your adulterous wife, doesn't mean you should do it because the Bible told you to. Some things just don't stand the test of time.

It is difficult masturbating because there is a guilt feeling about it, and the whole, "is this wrong? am I sinning?" feeling. But overall, animals do it, my cat does it, and I think we should be able to do without guilt. I've heard that you live longer, are happy, and less stressed out (for males at least) if you masturbate. Just like being nude, it is not something I want people to see me do, but if no one sees me nude, and I am checking myself out, then so be it. same goes with masturbating. If it is something that makes me happy, with some research has been proven to relieve stress, and will help me be a better lover when I save myself for my husband, then great!

I think once you have a specific person, like a gf, to think about when masturbating, maybe it will feel less guilty, it will be about someone you care about, and not just something to please you, that is at least my guess. But hey good luck, and I havent stopped trying!

Best wishes

hey um iget that feelin as well i guess it cause i over think it im not a virgin but im not dateing any one so i get bord and enjoy my self but hey im a chick and i get the same feelings so i guess if u do it to just do it u have aan after thought but i think if its about some one u really care about then shes ur after thought and u dnt really over think it as much but hey w/e happens hope u get over it

A lot of guilt issues DO stem from religious points of view. For some reasons Catholics think that wasting your 'seed' is a sin. I am not sure how though because MEN constantly produce more sperm.

I am a Christian female, and I am happily married and have a good sex life. But I still masterbate frequently. A well known Christian psychologist (James Dobson) has stated in one of his books about adolescence that it is perfectly OK And Normal. But you don't have to take it from him.

Personally I believe, as a Christian, that masterbation only poses a problem (in a religious standpoint) when you are doing it to pornography and/or picturing yourself WITH someone (which would be coveting). I myself, often masterbate just for the great feeling and stress relief it gives and when I am picturing someone, I picture my husband. Before I was married I pictured a faceless person.

There's NO reason at all to feel guilty for masterbation as long as it's not becoming a problem (IE. Taking up all of your time, making you exclude God, causing you to watch increased amount of pornography = which biblically IS sinful). But doing it for the pleasure, for the enjoyment of it, for the stress relief. That's GOOD it's OK, it's healthy and normal. But that's just My opinion