had sex and spent forever trying to orgasm psychological problem?

masharra · Newbie Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 5

i am a virgin and my gf is also a virgin. a few months ago we had sex and well i was very excited and she was also (very wet) when i entered her it was like ( hmm warm <ok>, wet <ok> is that it?)

from what i can tell she enjoyed it alot (she woke me up 5 times that night to repeat)
the problem is i faked an orgasm for all but 1 time and that one time it took (to me) forever for me to come and i think she came and was just laying there for me to finish rest of the week>

ive read that psychological problems can cause you to not orgasm
it this the case?

i find my gf very sexy and i love her with all of my heart
so i told her a few months later and she took it better than expected
saying she will fix that

im doubtful am i thinking too much during sex?

during sex i try to make sure i dont cum b4 her because i want her to cum and feel pleasured. actually during sex i am thinking alot

im wondering if im hurting her, if it feels good, various things numerous various things. as i read this maybe i think too much during sex and i need to just wham bam thank you ma am?

had sex and spent forever trying to orgasm psychological problem?

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