how do marriage relationship differ?

cheri · Veteran Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Posts: 550

I am supposed to get married in 15 days and I really do love my future husband but am kind of scared of marriage obligations so I wonder how does marriage relationship differ? I am 33 and wouldn't like the idea of something or somebody affecting my freedom and personal space so would like to hear from someone with marriage experience how does marriage relationship differ from regular one. Thanks much!

mendy · Gold Member Joined: 13 Jun 2003 Posts: 468

Well it differs a lot. I am married almost 7 years and to be honest I was really having tough time with adapting on new situations. But now I am proud of being in healthy marriage and of having such a good husband. Anyway sure marriage relationship differs a lot especially for ones like you are-you would be probably having some adaptation problem especially when the kids are involved though it doesn't have to be that way at all and it usually depends on how you get along with your partner and is it possible making a tolerable deals with him regarding your needs for freedom and space. Anyway I think that is always better before getting married to try out what marriage actually could be-you two start living together for at least a year before this marriage paper is signed so in the case of incompatible characters you could avoid the divorce horror.

how do marriage relationship differ?

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