hymen stretch exercises

mr_sputnik · Newbie Joined: 19 May 2008 Posts: 3

i have been with a few virgins in the past none of them have blead. you just have to take alot of time mounths in my experience of letting them become relaxed with u. then inserting fingers 1 then 2 and eventually 3. once they can relax with 3 it shouldnt bleed with sex for the first time. lubricant really makes a huge differnce it will reduce the friction and is great fun for playing with each other. and when it comes to sex it allows you to go alot faster before experiencing pain. i use liquid silk it doest dry and go tacky. also in my experience it gets tight again my girlfriend after a mounth of not seeing her she becomes like a virgin again. lubricant really is the key and relaxation. alot of plain is caused by the vagina tensing up from nerves making it hard to insert things in. you need to become relaxed with you partner this will help alot. i wouldnt advice putting sizors near vagina or local anithetic drugs u will cause more harm than good. if u want to relax and reduce pain have few glasses of wine or simular not to be drunk but enouth to make u little tippsy. make him take his time with u guys will usually push to go further just keep him in his place. if he wont wait then his the wrong person for u.

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I really really would not recommend you try to cut your own hymen. If he were a REAL doctor he would have told you to see a doctor, not to cut your own hymen with scissors!! I'm sorry but that's just stupid.. plz don't try it!!

Other · Newbie Joined: 09 Aug 2008 Posts: 2

I stumbled across this and I have to add that the post above is right. Please do not mess around with trying to cut or numb your hymen. It is like trying to do a medical procedure on yourself - you shouldn't even try unless you are a doctor (and if you are a doctor, you'd know not to do something so stupid).

Every hymen is different. Some people have very little, some people a lot. Look on Wiki for some info.

As to intercourse. Having penetrative intercourse and then pretending to be a virgin? Well, if it means so much to stay intact then there is no answer except to not have penetration. Women actually have equally good (sometimes better) orgasms when externally stimulated - get your man to read up a bit on women's physiology! - and men can easily achieve orgasm without full on penetration.

For those worried about penetration. How much it hurts depends on the individual. Some don't at all, some do. Much depends on the size of the man, but more depends on how gentle he is and how relaxed and turned on you are. To be blunt, it's fitting something large into something small. Lubrication is essential (ie you genuinely turned on) and relaxed muscles around the vagina will make it easier for him to fit (which is why worrying is unhelpful).

Sex, especially your first time, should be something you look forward to - this attitude actually makes it easier. If it is with someone you love, and who loves you back, then they should respect you enough to take it slow and communicate with you while it's happening. It's something you are *sharing* after all, not something that should be taken.

If your culture permits it, a good tip for women (often given as advice prior to marriage) is to use their fingers in themselves to get the muscles used to being stretched. This doesn't have to be full-on masturbating, just as a form of preparation so the muscles learn to stretch better than they would otherwise.

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