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guest100
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 Posted: 05/15/07 - 07:02 Post subject: i dont love him anymore |
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hi i was wondering if anyone can help me!
i have been with my brilliant boyfriend for 2 n a half years but the problem is i dont think i love him anymore. The reason i say i think is because evrytime i try telling him i dont want him anymore i burst into tears and cant stop crying! if this isnt bad enough we are suppose to be going on holiday together in october but i dont want to be with him for that long! wt should i do??? he is a great guy and i know he loves me. please help me!  |
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| Posted: 05/15/07 - 21:17 Post subject: |
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| hm...., well, i cant help ya out much here. but if you cry when you say that, then you do probably still love him deep down, because noone likes to hurt the ones they care about. |
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| Posted: 05/16/07 - 10:05 Post subject: LEAVE HIM |
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| WELL IF YOU YOU DONT WANT TO BE WITH HIM THEN LEAVE HIM CUZ YOUR WAISTING HIS TIME AND YOUR TIME... |
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fadingxpolaris
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| Posted: 05/19/07 - 14:12 Post subject: |
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you could just cry because you have been together for so long, even when love is gone attachment is still there.
you could be scraed of being loney after he is gone, as he is probably one of the pople that know you best.
if you dont want to be with him; you need to dump him. Soon. It isnt fair to lead him on, which is basically what you are doing. |
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jey1983
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| Posted: 05/24/07 - 01:38 Post subject: |
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Many people don't realize this, but it hurts just as much to be the "break up er" as it is to be broken up with. The one that breaks up deals with the anxiety of hurting a loved one. Yes, you do love him...if you didn't you woudln't have a hard time ending it. But, you may not love him as a "lover" anymore (maybe just a freind).
Its hard, but the longer you put it off,,,,the harder it will be. You will need to sit down and dsicuss your feelings. You are going to get hurt, he is going to get hurt. This is life....but its the only way for you both to move on and find something that will make you even happier. |
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