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pink_05
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 Posted: 03/01/05 - 20:22 Post subject: i need information/advice |
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hi
i have a question,
i was out with my bf and were playing around with eachother thing is, we it started getting to physical and we were about to have sex. i know that his penis was there but didnt compltely penetrate me. this happened sunday i was supposed to start my period this week and im scared that i might be pregnant?....what if i do get my period this week do i still have a chance of getting pregnant?....i mean before we got to that moment we were also being veryplayful |
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lucita
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| Posted: 03/01/05 - 20:50 Post subject: |
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Hey Pink,
I have one question... did you have sex or not... since you weren t very clear in your post... and did your bf ejaculate in you
Jup, there is a possibility, as you I guess already know 
And I think you are too late to take pills for preventing pregnancy... since it is best to take it 12 to 70 hours after the intercourse...
If you get your period this week it is still possible you are pregnant, but it is a very small chance!!!
I guess it is best for you and your state of mind to take a pregnancy test... it shows assurely results... you can use it after 4 days, but it is best to use it one week after the sexual intercourse.
One more thing... at the moment I think you are scared and also quite stressed out... there is a possibility you are pregnant, but there is also VERY BIG CHANCE YOU ARE NOT!!! So, for begining do not worry and relax... use the pregnancy test on sunday... and tell me the results, I am curious 
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pink_05
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| Posted: 03/01/05 - 21:11 Post subject: |
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| well i guess we were both cought up in the moment i did feel his penis almost penetrating me, but i guess that when we both realized how far we were getting to we both got the same impulse to stop.... |
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lucita
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| Posted: 03/01/05 - 21:18 Post subject: |
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I guess you are going to be ok... use condoms next time... although I am not a fan of them... amd there is also tehnique of elusion 
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pink_05
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| Posted: 03/01/05 - 21:28 Post subject: |
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thatx for your advice i need to let someone know what i was going through ......"and there is also tehnique of elusion" ??? well thing with us is well we have been going out for 2 yrs but you can say that we have never really "HAD" sex...so what do you think i should do to kep it safe in the mean time? ....sorry im like bothering  |
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lucita
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| Posted: 03/02/05 - 08:04 Post subject: |
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Hey Pink,
You are not bothering
You are going out with this boy for 2 yrs, but you never really had sex?!  wooooow... and why not? Is it becouse religion?
What is your relationship like? I mean ... it seems strange not really having sex after 2 yrs, don't you think ?
Tehnique of elusion... your bf must penetrate you and then a few moments before his ejacuation he takes his penis out of you ... then he actually has to help him self ...if you know what I mean  (with his hands or you can help him come orally, with your hands or how ever...)
 But some boys can't control themself when they ejacuate, so it isn't werry safe tehnique... especially not if you are changing your partners ...that way it is beter to use condoms... but since you have a steady relationship I guess it's ok (concerning hiv and other std's)
... But you must talk with him about that... Can he control himself and react on time? I mean he must like take his penis out of you before he ejacuates
What do you mean ...what to do to keep it safe in the mean time?
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pink_05
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| Posted: 03/02/05 - 13:05 Post subject: |
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HI!
well here is the thing, you are right about the hole religion aspect. we came across each other in our church and well he is involbed with the church band(he plays drums) so it a big thing for somethone to be up there sooo i guess why woudl se waht we are doing fornicaton, i think you have an idea of the church vies of any sexual thing before marriage....
so our relation ship has been wierd because we know the sexual tension is there. one more thing his parents are the pastors of or church (to make this a even greater deal! lol ....
so we have been sexual in other ways meaning (oral)jst being very physical with each other ..but there have been ocations that personally to me dosent feel like enough
i know its a dificult situation,dont need to tell me twice  |
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lucita
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| Posted: 03/02/05 - 19:19 Post subject: |
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Hey Pink,
I didn't mean moking you... I am baptised, I belive in God, ... but church as an institution and it s beliefs doesn t suit me... but that is just my opinion... and offcourse I respect yours.
I asumed it is a religious stuff...why else not having sex
but, anyhow... love is the most important...
what about marriage? did you think about that...how old are you two?
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| Posted: 03/03/05 - 16:32 Post subject: |
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Hi Pink
Getting back to your original post.
Just a word of advise. Your period can be absent or late for reasons other than pregnancy. Stress and worry can also cause a delay. Relax for the rest of the week, try not to think about your concerns and see what happens. (I know...easier said than done)
If you do not get your period by next week then you should see a doctor. |
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