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blazingpoppertopps
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 Posted: 06/24/08 - 13:58 Post subject: i need to stop masturbation but i cant stop... |
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| So i feel bad masturbating but i end up doing it again and again. I know it is bad, but i cant stop and when im all alone i just do it... ever since i was in sixth grade... now im going to be 17 soon. I really want to stop but i dont know how and i feel like i never cummed before. i want to try it but it just wont happen. i felt pleasure but never cummed, how? and when i tried to stick a cucumber up my hole, it hurt too much... im so confused and i need help! |
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| Posted: 06/26/08 - 09:23 Post subject: |
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| With you feeling bad about masturbating, it can cause you to not orgasm...if you stop or not, there is nothing wrong about masturbating but if you don't accept it as ok, you can never truly orgasm. |
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Kirk C
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| Posted: 06/27/08 - 14:49 Post subject: |
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A couple of points:
First, all men masturbate. There are virtually no exceptions to this.
A handful delay their orgasm, and some don't admit to it but call it something else, and some do it instead of intercourse, and some try to stop because they think they must only have intercourse.
The fact is that adult males masturbate. It is not socially acceptable to admit it, nor to promote it, but it happens all the time.
Many men only do it in private... like in a shower or on the toilet... or alone in bed.
But if you are feeling very bad about it, perhaps you want to speak with a councilor or trusted advisor or religious leader.
I'm not sure why you say you feel that you've never cum... does that mean, never an orgasm, or does it mean that your sex drive is always brimming so that you want it again?
it's not unusual for a teen to want to pleasure themselves daily once they've learned how. The problem is when it takes over your life, and becomes your only outlet, in place of getting out and meeting people, having a life, making friends and finding a relationship. THAT's the pitfall. |
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