Have you ever thought of getting married first before you have a baby that may help out alot!
As far as positions... Well any position will do it's just not time for you to have one right now.
Try getting married and getting money set aside and a house to live in and yourself established and then try for the baby.
I am not trying to be mean but if you both love each other soooo much then you should love each other enough to get married before having a baby together.
Take care and God Bless,
Gloria
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