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babe
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 Posted: 05/07/08 - 18:52 Post subject: impotent husband |
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hey
just thought of finding a solution to my problem here.....
we are married for 6 months now and till today we have not had sex....i have seen him getting few erections now and then,but he says it goes off within few seconds...he has never penetrated till now.....
he had one or two homosexual experiences he says.although he doesnt want to call himself a gay!!!!!!!!
i am so disturbed...he says he is attratcted to me and its not my problem....he got his invertisgations doen and no medical problems found...
he says i can have sex with anyone if i want,but i dont want to do that....
its 6 months...i have so much desires,i go near him,crave.....
and he doesnt seem to be interested many times.....
unfortunately both if us are doctors....
i asked him to try viagra,he says he is scared.....wat should i do?i dont want to walk out of the marriage only because of this reason..he is nice and caring...i dont know if he is at fault too? |
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chiman1000
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| Posted: 05/27/08 - 20:13 Post subject: hI |
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BABE,
This whole situation is your own fault. You married a guy that you never had sex with before. The guys also told you he had gay experiences in the past. The is a reason he does not want to tough you. Either he is gay or has a health issue. Maybe both. |
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Kirk C
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| Posted: 05/29/08 - 14:58 Post subject: Lack of attention |
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Babe,
This must be extrodinarily frustrating for you.
As doctors, you both must be basically familiar with normal sexual response and with alternatives and resources to draw upon.
Clearly, you need to be in marriage counseling, even if the cause is not yet known. If your spouse won't go, you go alone. You need professional support to look at your options clearly.
Do not assume that:
1)It's all your fault.
2) That it's his fault.
3) That he's gay.
4) That anyone outside the marriage can label the problem.
See out some professional counseling now.
And let us know what you come up with.
Good luck.
Last edited by Kirk C on 06/02/08 - 17:21; edited 1 time in total |
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phantom240
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| Posted: 05/29/08 - 21:27 Post subject: |
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Tie him down and rape him.
Totally just kidding. Sounds like you need to have a one on one with him and see if there may be something you can do to arouse him, or maybe like it was said earlier, you may need marriage counseling. I can't imagine what it must be like for you.
Best of wishes. |
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Amith2008
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| Posted: 05/30/08 - 18:08 Post subject: |
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Honey, he's definitely gay.
You have to figure out what to do next, but his homosexuality is never going to change. No amount of 'trying' is going to make him want to have sex with you.
Why are you guys DOCTORS and afraid to use viagra??
He's not afraid of Viagra. It seems as if hes just not interested in sex with females. He HAS had sex with men though. He's probably just plain old gay. Search through his computer for gay porn to verify.
He's also been in love with a best 'friend' since forever. |
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meanne2007
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| Posted: 06/02/08 - 11:16 Post subject: |
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| Try to search in the internet that could possibly help your problem, or tell him to go in a council....get consultation from the expert, maybe he had a psychological problem that get from the past experience... |
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