is love enough if there is no understandig among us???

marija · Newbie Joined: 07 Apr 2008 Posts: 1

pls give me some advice:(im 21 years old and my boyfrend is 23 .we are together for 5 years and we love each other but we can not agree for a lot of thins,we are very diferent,we argue a lot...and im afraid that i dont know should i marry him when the time is right or that will be a huge mistake? is love enough for this step?how can it be when i somethimes i cant stand being with him....what is the right thing to do?pls help!

bbfeet9 · Moderator Joined: 12 Mar 2008 Posts: 671

If you two can't get along now, it's doubtful it will change when your married. The part that bothers me is when you say there are times when you can't stand to be with him. Marraige is together. In the same house, in the same bed, etc. He will be the last person you see at night and the first person in the morning.
If you are really in love with him and you are marraige minded, seek out a pre marraige counselor. There are times when my husband gets on my nerves, especially when he is not working and around the house ALL day.
By the end of the day i can't look at him. But i love him, and i am glad i married him. Get some counseling first, or talk to your priest. Good luck.

is love enough if there is no understandig among us???

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