you'll get the pee feeling on your way to orgasm - it goes away and is replaced by feeling good instead.
to stop being so nervous about the pee feeling just go to the loo before you have sex - at least then you know your bladder is empty so nothing can come out.
definitely get on some bc - if you know he is std free the pill is very effective and if not use condoms or both (you can never be over protected)
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