ive tried to stop masturbating but i cant

unforgiven · Newbie Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Posts: 1

i ve tried to stop masturbating for a week now and when i get an erection the only way to stop it is by masurbating. how can i cure this.

BedsonTrudeau · Moderator Joined: 02 Jan 2007 Posts: 942

You're probably getting erections because you've masturbated a lot in the past. That's just a guess. But if you haven't masturbated a lot, your body probably still wants it. Masturbation is an addicting behavior. (Not to say that you are/were addicted, but it's a habit that your body wants when done regularly.) Try quitting cold turkey for longer. It may take your body longer than anticipated to get used to not masturbating. If after three weeks you're still getting a lot of erections and you have the desire to masturbate, see a sex therapist or other professional help if you find that necessary.

Guest · Guest

hey im 13, I hump a pillow to masturbate while watching something "sexy". is this normal? I started doing this when i was 12

kingbooker · Newbie Joined: 11 Mar 2007 Posts: 2

I'm 16 and I masturbate at least twice daily. Is this normal?

BedsonTrudeau · Moderator Joined: 02 Jan 2007 Posts: 942

People say that masturbation is normal, but when done twice a day, that's, in my opinion, too much. That's when it starts to become addicting, and you don't want to be addicted to masturbation. Addiction to anything isn't good.

As for guest, when a male becomes aroused, he often has the desire to "hump" because this is what men typically do during sex: they thrust inside the women. So, it's a normal desire, yes.

Guest · Guest

im a girl and masturbated for about 3 years now and im 13 now. i cant get away from my clit. its depressing. what shall i do? Rolling Eyes

Guest · Guest

so yea this is kinda wierd, hmm

im 21 and I cant seem to stop masturbating, ive tried a couple differnt things but I cant seem to stop longer then 4 days. When im doing things I just suddenly get this urge then later thoughts starting coming, and no matter how I fight it, I end up failing. The best solution ive found is surround myself with people so there is no way to be alone, but that only works for so long, as people will not always be around. I masturbate probably....3-5 times a day, started when I was...maybe 11ish?

Ive heard something about testostrerione levels, I was working out approx 7 hours day,( I was a competitor with the notion of heading to higher levels of sports competition.) ive stoped pursing my sports goals, and im going into bussiness( which is another reason i need to stop) but I still masturbate fequently. and I just cant seem to stop, I even get the urge in the middle of the night. and its become such a habbit that I do it mindlessly, not even realizing completely what I was up to untill after. Seems like almost anything triggers it, I just get the urge then I start the whole imganation thing and im back to square one.

Does anyone have suggestions on it?

I that its fairly natural, and I accept that, and I also accept that my self control is also a major issue. But knowing and then excersing it under fire is...difficult.

I do struggle with the guilt aspect and ive heard thats natural after-effect but I would like to stop completely.

Ive done cold turkey on a number of addicting things like completely giving up all sugar and anything with sugar, or following a strict diet plan by my trainers; but I cant seem to shake this one.

obvisously ive noticed some differnces between when I am not and when I am, like mucsle strength, stamina, muscle pain, muscle spasams, sleeply-ness( more then usual). I also noticed that i lose quiet a bit of muscle tone when I am doing it more fequently. I get headachs as well that are not present when I do not masutrbate and some mild wrist pain.

I know some people wont like this but,

i dont think a shrink can help, simply put someone with troubles cant help someone with troubles. Its like the blind leading the blind.

and I dont want to take any form of medications.

does anyone have any suggestions?

vlajkob · Posted: 04/10/07 - 18:00 Post subject: problem solved

You are young people and it's quite normal to masturbate few times in a week,maybe two times a day if you have an urge!Hey try not to!
It's simple:Each testicle is made up of tightly coiled tubules which manufactures more than 250 million sperm cells each day(since you have 2 testicles multiply that number with 2).The sperm cells are stored in the testis itself. If the sperm are not released, they break down and are absorbed into the blood stream.There are at least 20 million sperm cells per milliliter of semen.So do the math! Smile

When u grow up your desire will decrease! Wink

Viciousenimal777 · Newbie Joined: 17 Dec 2007 Posts: 6

ive tried to stop masturbating but i cant

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