labia removal without surgery?

cunfuzedmuch101 · Newbie Joined: 04 May 2006 Posts: 1

ok so i have longish labia n i do NOT like them they make me feel uncomfortable with guys and wen im whereing certain clothes/bathingsuits and especially wen i start cheer next year ive even been thinkning about not doing it jus for that reason.....n i really want to....i jus want to get rid of them or even lessen them that wud b good! ive did mi research n ive seen no way to tightn the inner labia without surgery, and there is NOOOO way i can get surgery.....dont have the money or mi parents wont let me anyway.....plz help me i dont want any advice on respect yourself beczuae thats not going to change how embarresed i feel.....i dont mean to b rude but i really need another alternative.....i jus want to b MORE normal.....plz help!

helene · Supporter Joined: 03 Mar 2006 Posts: 363

I have to ask you why the heck do you want to resize your labia, you should know that the ladies today just want to have big labia, this became a hip and the end of labia shame came! It became incredibly sexy, the women with protruding vulvas with large inner labia. I would suggest to reconsider your decision of resizing it, as it could be a wrong decision, you know. For me, having large labia doesn’t make a difference, I mean, we are all different and thus we all love different things. Maybe someone would like your big labia while others won’t. But as it’s the problem with you, it’s you who doesn’t like the way it looks, you just don’t rush into decisions or making some steps when it’s the matter of changing the size of your vulva. Don’t be crazy to something you might regret later. Ok? I bet you will find a guy that will like it just the way it is, don’t you worry.

Carifairy · Veteran Joined: 16 Apr 2006 Posts: 2727

There is no way, short of surgery, that you can tighten your labia without surgery.

If this is something you want you will have to consider it when you are an adult, or have the necessary funds.

mitzibel · Newbie Joined: 20 Jul 2006 Posts: 3

It's been theorized that men find large, pouty, bee-stung lips on a woman so sexually stimulating because they "mirror" the woman's. . .ahem . . .lower lips. Large, aroused genitals on either sex signal sexuality and availability on a level that's a lot more primitive than that which Hustler's lighting and makeup directors are working at.

Leave 'em alone. Letting some cosmetic surgeon carve up your lady parts so that they look more like the kind that are getting more "face time" in wank mags is only going to leave you scarred, in a lot of ways, and I will say from experience that guys really dig two things: female genitalia that is offered generously and sincerely to them, and a mellow and hang-up-free lady doing the offering. I don't think surgery is going to accomplish either of those for you.

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I see many labia each day in an office practice. They come in all shapes and sizes. None are abnormal in the absence of disease. They all look good and serve their purpose. Please do not think that large ones are ugly or abnormal. In my years of practice I have only had one woman ask if hers were "larger that normal". Many women with small ones would swap with you if possible. I asked my husband if he thinks size matters to most men. He did not think they would care one way or the other. Some might like larger ones during sexual play and I suspect your boyfriend will not say anything to hurt your feelings. If so maybe he is the wrong type of fellow.

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I am 19 years old and I just had a baby 5 months ago. Since I became pregnant, my labia majora (outer lips) hang down so far it looks to me like I could have a penis. As if thats not bad enough, my labia minora is huge and saggy as well. I talked to my Dr. about reduction and he said it would be a good idea. Insurance pays for most of it. [/img][/url]

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i have just had labia removal done three weeks ago and im so happy with the result.... for the first time in my life i like to look at my geetile area and it looks so pretty now.
I really feel that to go through life with labia you are not happy with is a waste. i am 46 and sexually active abnd i finally feel free.... dont be afraid its worht the bit of pain Very Happy

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I am a 19 year old college student who has never been comfortable with my genitals. I always knew that mine appeared to be different but never really thought about getting surgery. I was researching it on the interenet and saw before and after pictures and I was so shocked and so jealous! I hate the way I look in a bathing suit because of them and I am very uncomfortable with males because of it. Is there a certain age limit for this surgery? And about how much does it cost?

mollia · Newbie Joined: 09 Jun 2007 Posts: 3

you guys are too much sometimes
and who is this guy reading ladies labia forums lol

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ok... that comment was unusful and totaly wrong, sorry buddy but a large minor labia does not mean you have had plenty of intercoarse. Everyone is different, the size can be from genetics, pregnancy, but not because you are sexually active!

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