foof1000
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 Posted: 03/22/07 - 19:55 Post subject: lack of sensation in penis during sex |
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Hi,
I have a lack of sensation in penis during sex. I always have. It's hard to get hard, but once I have, and are inserted into the vagina or mouth, after 20 or so strokes, I have to stop -- there's both no feeling, and the feeling of too much feeling! I know that sounds like a contradiciton. If I stop for 20 to 50 seconds, I can 'build up' and start again -- it's like the nerves have either been rested back to the right sensation, or have had time to build up to a higher state of excitement.
this might not be a problem -- but it takes me, sometimes, close to 60 rounds of 'stroking 20 and then stopping 40' to get to climax! Needless to say, my poor wife, after the first half hour, is waaay ready to stop either sucking or f@#$^&*. I have always had this problem, ever since i was a teenager.
I hardly ever even see it mentioned in literature anywhere. I am totally stumped -- but I WILL figure this out.
(I thought maybe if i stopped using porno and masturbation for awhile I would feel 'hornier' -- and I do -- but the problem with sensation is still there! I thought perhaps just masturbating without porno would help -- but so far it hasn't. Masturbation is actually the best way to come -- but I have the same 'plateau' issues wanking that I do with my wife...I would love to have a simple problem like premature ejaculation -- the remedies seem so straightforward. This feels like a LACK of sensation -- and that seems like a difficult thing to remdy. |
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