large labia minora

im a 15 yr old (virgin) i have very big inner labia and i hate itso much. They are even, but are sometimes very uncomfortable. Its been like this for all my life and becoming an increasing problem. I hate to look at myself because i think theyre disgusting. They come down further than the outer labia. Im too scared to have a boyfriend because of embarasment of him seeing it. i dont want to ever have sex. its starting to take over my thoughts.

im the exact same! all i think about is how frustrating it is and how much i want to change and wat guys will think about it..wen i was with my bf i always had to take his hand away because i was too ashamed..now i dont want to date any guys because of it..and i hate wearing bikinis or changing in front of my friends..its taking over my life:x....apparently wen u get older men like it so thats ok but i jus wana know about teenage guys mostly..nice to know im not alone though..im just 15 too

Jane and Bubbles:

As a licensed health-care professional, I can tell you with expert confidence that “larger” and/or longer inner labia are much more normal than you can imagine. Unfortunately, many young females have at one time or another seen other nude “sexy gals” in magazines or elsewhere who have seemingly picture-perfect inner labia that are very small and symmetrical, which gives far too many young girls the false impression that larger, longer labia minora are not normal and unnatural, which is not true. Furthermore, every report I’ve ever reviewed regarding how young men feel about larger labia minora reveals that far more young men clearly prefer a female with larger labia minora. Lastly, as a male, I firmly agree with the scientific editorials and publications regarding how much more sexy female anatomy with larger inner labia truly is. Most men feel this way; therefore, relax and hold your head up knowing you are more desirable.

i am not just saying this to make you two girls feel good about yourselves, but most men really do prefer a large labia minora. some guys might joke about a women's labia, calling them "beef curtains" etc, but i can assure you, they are a real turn on for most boys/men. i always get upset when i see young girls and women getting surgery to reduce there labia. the before and after pictures are usually tragic. many go from having a esthetically pleasing vagina, to a red, scared, child like vagina. it's insanity. trust me girls, most boys/men will love your "over-sized" labia minora.

I am replying because I am a 36 year old woman and for many years I was embarrassed and ashamed of this. Trust me, as you get older, you will find that men find this very attractive. My boyfriend absolutely loves this feature about me and says he has always wished he could be with a woman with them. I am so glad I never had the surgery, it isn't a defect, it is a natural enhancement. Love your body.