loosing myself in a relationship

si · Newbie Joined: 02 May 2004 Posts: 4

Hi, I could not find a person to be in a serious relationship with for quite a long time. A year ago that has changed. My new relationship was going just great. The climax was the day we started living together. However, this is what bothers me. It seams that bit by bit I am giving up on my old habits. We now do everything together. I feel that I am loosing myself in this relationship. Can you help me with this problem?

deane · Newbie Joined: 06 Mar 2004 Posts: 6

Hi, it is great that you have found someone to be with. Even better is the fact that you and your partner are living together. This means that you are really caring for each other. I am speaking out of my own experience. What you feel, loosing myself in the relationship bothered me as well. The thing is, this feeling is a part of life when you live with a partner. You need to be more flexible. However, one should not completely change his ways of life. A person has to have freedom to do things that he used to like before the relationship; naturally, the things that made him happy. Talk to your partner about your desires and what you do not like in your new life. Believe me that everything will turn out great. I have no more problems.

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