my partner is having premature ejaculations, and is not getting very erect.
Maybe he isnt feeling the same about me?
Maybe its ths bottle of guinesss daily?
Or the smoking, but he has smoked for 13 yeard, and infact he was always erect.
He says he is stressed, and has been sleeping at relatives, rather than home, because he says it is easier, and the work is closer, andhe has to be up at 5am at times , and may finins word at 11.30pm, or 2am the day before, because he does driving work, but he had been without a car, and travel was an issue, but now that the has a car, he is still not home every noght any more. This has gone on for 2 months.
I do not catch him watching porn, or masturbating. He seems a bi shy and on edge as a person, but there was a wrong number whic was a female, which may have been a cover up, but there was a female he was in contact with, but no discussion about it. who she is i dont know.
Mybe it is guilt or perhaps he is bored.
He has hinted several times that i have a fancy man, even before this, which is not true. He turns it into jest at times, but passing remarks, and i reassure him. He always searches my texts and last calls, but theres never anything to find.
I have said mean things to him, because of this behavior.
He never refuses sex, and neither do i , unless one of us is not well.The sex life is normally healthy, with some variety.
What do you make of all of this.
I love him, but i feel distant and put off. I have never badly criticized his performance, and always tell him the good things about himself, but the last session was lousy, after he had stayed out for 4 nights, nand been , i dont know where.Hardly erect for a man with such a high drive thats been inactive.
He refuse sex 3 weeks ago, after not having any for days, which is noot usual. I do not pressure him, infact, i think i am more hesitant this time around.
I cant constantly spice things uup, or force him to stay home. There is no communication, because he wants me to be quiet all the tim, and doesnt want to talk, or ask questions.
You probably think i should nip it in the bud. Sounds simpler, but i will try a little longer, see if a mirical assists my efforts!!
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