lost virginity, don't remember, LOTS of blood

Louise2 · Newbie Joined: 05 Mar 2006 Posts: 1

About a month and a half ago I went out with a friendly acquaintance from one of my classes (I'm in college). I remember going to her room, drinking a lot, too much, then going and hanging out in the student lounge. In the lounge I was talking to a guy I met there, but wasn't actually interested in. I think I was just talking to him because I was drunk and I didn't know where my friend was at the moment. This was within about 45minutes, and it's all I really remember from the night.
I don't want to make this post too long, so the next thing I knew it was morning, I was in bed, and sicker than I ever remember being. There was a huge spot of blood on my bed (bigger than my hand, soaked all the way through the comforter). For about a week after that I was extremely sore and had sharp pains when I sat downs sometimes. I bled for a few days and had brown discharge.
I don't remember it happening, I have no idea how we got to my room, how it was initiated, nothing. The friend I had gone out with said 'someone' had said to leave me with that guy and go to the actual party with out me. I haven't gone out since, I've been totally reclusive. I don't know how I feel about it. But, is that much blood normal? It was really a lot.

Jannie · Gold Member Joined: 03 Mar 2006 Posts: 428

Well, I haven’t bled that long when I lost my virginity and the guy wasn’t especially gentle because he didn’t even know I was a virgin. There was a blood stain on my bed, but I haven’t been bleeding for days. Maybe the guy you’ve been with was rougher than he was supposed to.

Look, you may start remembering things in a few days, it is usually how it goes but it would be best to go and see a gynecologist. I am sure you have a student clinic around or something. It would be good to have it checked and see if you haven’t been hurt or something. Did you find condoms around, do you think that he cum into you. Was there any sperm coming out of your vagina?

Considering you lost your virginity, it is good to have your first gynecological exam as every girl who turns 18 ( I don’t know how old you are) should have regular gyno exams. There you can ask all possible questions regarding contraception and everything else you may want to know.
How do you feel about not knowing what actually happened? If you need someone to talked to and you really can’t trust your college friends, then you could also look for a physiologist on the clinic who you could turn to just for a talk. I am sure you will find it helpful.
You may even ask a gynecologist to refer you to someone.

falling · Newbie Joined: 28 Jun 2006 Posts: 2

It sounds like someone spiked your drink hun. If I were you I'd get a description of this guy and contact the police - because this guy will keep preying on young women if he doesn't get caught.

lost virginity, don't remember, LOTS of blood

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