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brenner
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 Posted: 11/20/06 - 00:00 Post subject: my daughter's been molested |
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Hi, my 12 years old daughter has been molested by my ex boyfriend. We were 2 months together, and I never thought for a minute that he was a maniac. If my daughter didn’t find courage to tell me what was happening, who knows how long would it last. I told the police everything, and I swear to god, if he gets near my house again, I will buy a gun and use it.
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clendening
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Hi, I’m sorry that your daughter’s been molested. That man is evil and he needs to be locked up forever. I hope they arrested him, but if they didn’t, ask for restraining order. You never know if this maniac will come back, so please be careful. I strongly recommend you counseling for you and your daughter. It is very important for your daughter to talk about this, and not to keep it in her self. Children can often blame themselves for bad things that happen, and that’s why she need a therapy so much- to help her understand that it’s not her fault for being molested. There are many evil and sick people on this world, and we can’t always recognize them immediately. But once when we do, we should make sure that they never hurt anyone again.
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xThexCrowx33
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| hi im now 14 yr old girl and when i was 12 i went to my first "hardcore" highschool party.. drugs,drink ect. i didnt like it and i went upstairs by myself (big mistake already)...two guys followed me in and i was raped..your lucky you have had a daughter to be so comftorable with you.. i never told my parents.. or anyone.. just my one best friend... a gun isnt the answer....shooting him wont make what happened to your daughter go away ..i dont know what to tell you ..but really be proud of your daughter for being so honest with you.. i wish i was like that with my dad..i guess i was just scared that he would be dissapointed in me for being in a place i shouldnt have been.. i blame myself ever night for going... really be very proud of your daughter..she did what i was never able to do and now that its been 2 yrs.. i figured whats the point of saying anything.... |
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CraigT
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| I think that is horrible how can u rape a 12 year odl girl o.O im 15 and i would never think about it. quick question how old where they older or ur age at the time O.o sorry if its a sencertive question |
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pinkprincess
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| Posted: 09/08/07 - 12:32 Post subject: |
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Im so sorry to hear about your daughter. This very thing happened to me, and I didnt have the courage to tell my mother till nearly a decade later. I have been let down by my mother only too often, I do not trust her. So I am refreshed to hear that you are a good mother and are there for your daughter. Keep supporting her. Try and be careful of who you date and hang around, your daughter is not going to be trusting of males, esp new ones in her life. No need to buy a gun, just be careful and if he comes around again get a restraining order and seek more legal help.
Your daughter (on her own time) will need to have some help, therapy works for some, support groups, but considering she is young, I would suggest she write her feelings down (she doesnt need to share them, unless she is comfortable to) and this can be a source of release for her.
I hope all the best for you and your daughter.
Take care. |
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Some-Teenage-Dude
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| Posted: 11/15/07 - 11:09 Post subject: |
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if i was in any of your places i would have already SHOT THE F*CKERS TO DEATH!!... ESPECIALLY IF IT WAS MY DAUGHTER... but then id be in jail and shed be all alone... so i guess hired killers arent all bad..
man i really f*kin wud tho...*BANG* right in the balls... |
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Joe34
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| To the person above me, that wouldn't take away the pain her child has gone through and probably wouldn't help her seeing her mom shot a man down, life isn't all about shooting people. Get a restraining order and make sure he gets locked up for a while. |
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