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dunstan
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Posted: 06/11/07 - 03:34 Post subject: |
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| Hi, I am 27 years old and I have problem with my girlfriend. She told me several days ago that she is imagining other people while she is having sex with me. It was very frustrating because I think that she doesn't like me when she needs to imagine other people in such situation. Anyone has suggestion? |
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weider
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Posted: 06/14/07 - 22:10 Post subject: |
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| Hi, I think that you don't have to show so firm attitude on this. People are having different fantasies and it is quite normal. I bet you also have your fantasies too. Fact that your girlfriend is having sex with you and not someone else is good reason to have more confidence. Relax and enjoy. |
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Posted: 06/14/07 - 23:48 Post subject: |
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O_o
I'd be insulted, specially if it were a friend she were picturing... w/you or not, whom your sexoring you should be looxoring at O_o
-Ze Eric |
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evil-pineapples
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Posted: 06/18/07 - 23:43 Post subject: |
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| There's a huge difference between fantasizing about other people and fantasizing about other people while you're actually having sex. The former is OK, although it's not really a comfortable topic to talk to your significant other about. The latter is not such a good thing. It might be hard but talk to your girl about it, ask her why she fantasizes about other people while you are having sex. |
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kaylamiller
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| I would be completely humiliated if my husband told me he was imaganing other women, I think she should have kept that to herself, but since she didnt, you should probably talk to her about it, if she doesnt care how you feel maybe you should make her understand by telling her you are imagining other girls.... make her feel like she is not good enough and she might understand. But if you are attractive and you dont really think she is not interested in you she might just be having fantasies* she wishes would happen to her |
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