Posted: 05/28/07 - 04:16 Post subject: my girlfriends problem
hi my g/f and i have had sex about 10 times and it still hurts her i dont know if its just because of my size but she is worried that there might be something wrong with herself. she bled up untill the sixth time and it hurt quite a bit she said the first time which i told her was normal. there has been no blood the last couple of times but it still really hurts for her i feel fine and most of the time we use a condom i am using the trojan magnum twist kind i dont know if knowing that will help answer the question. but maybe there is something you can say that will put her mind at ease.
also i thik its because of the pain involved with sex or partially the fact that she is uncomfortable with her body but she also hasnt had an orgasm as of yet now there hasnt been any foreplay or oral sex and im ok with that being that it doesnt do anything for me i only finish while haveing sex and no i dont cum inside her i pull out but please if there is any light you can shine on these note please let us know it will help her mind and me to feel better.
First: Are you using plenty of vaginal lubrication, don't just rely on what is on the condom that you are using. Yes you must use that unless she is producing a good flow herself. KY is now producing some great stuff And should be if your getting aroused before hand.
Secondly: When you enter her, are you going about it slowly and not like a racehorse trying to win the race.
Thirdly: When you enter her vagina, does it feel real tight, like she has just flexed her muscles inside. She needs to relax, but it has to be with your help. Talk to her and get her to relax, relax so that her vagina is more willing to rec your penis. The vagina has muscles that yes, need to be stretched, but you can help her by being gentle in the process.
I'm not sure if this will help but you mentioned that
there's no foreplay? This could be a part of the problem.
Im no real expert but she may need foreplay to get her
to the point where she's ready, If she isnt fully aroused
its definitely going to be too tight for her comfort
You could need more lube but its still possible that she
isnt quite ready at the moment. Slow down just a bit
and get her totally into it before you go for it. Also you
might try a better angle or like ghost writer said u might
need to work up to full speed rather than trying to finish
as soon as you start.
Like I said I'm not a doctor so dont rule out the possibility
of a health issue but more than likely you just need to
take your time and make sure shes fully aroused.
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