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shilpa
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 Posted: 05/23/07 - 21:34 Post subject: my husband avoids sex |
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i have been having trouble being intimate with my huby. oh i cant say anything wrong abt him. he is so sweet. he takes care of me so well and is very gud and kind at heart. but i feel he is trying to avoid having sex with me. im married to him for 1 yr and 10months. i feel our sex life is very very less. now im 8 weeks pergnant and doc told us not to have sex for 12 weeks. keeping this reason he doesnt want me to be intimate. first 4 months of marriage i dint realize coz i was in a joint family of 7 people in a very small house. but the moment i started living alone with my huby. i started feeling that he is avoiding sex. now that we r not going to have sex for 12 weeks i feel that my huby wil get used to not having sex and avoid me completely. he controls himself a lot. he does not mastrubate also.if i try to bring some intimacy he says " stop its not gud for baby" he does'nt want oral sex even. i feel im living with a frd than with a husband, like a roommate. b4 i was pregnant, he told me" tell me wen ur moody then we wil have sex". i thought i was the problem, but hey im very sexy, thr is nothing wrong in me. im fair, gud looking ,i have big sexy boobs, and a sexy ass too. wat else does my huby needs to get attracted to me? i dont know  sometimes i feel i married the wrong person. |
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sweetcandy07
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| Posted: 05/24/07 - 17:41 Post subject: |
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| wow...i really think you should let him know what you're feeling...i mean he is your husband after all |
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kaylamiller
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| Posted: 06/21/07 - 17:20 Post subject: |
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| I agree with the other person tell him how you are feeling, but i do not understand why you are not having sex?... Is their something wrong with your pregnancy so far? The entire time I was pregnant my doctor encouraged my husband and I to have sex often because women get very emotional as their body changes... we were never advised by anyone not have sex... so unless their is a direct reason i would have sex with him, it will not hurt the baby, again unless their is somethingthat you did not mention?... That is good that your husband is not masterbating, but honestly he probably is.. before i was pregnant i was sexy after i had gained weight! (just another peice of advice watch what you eat while you are pregnant!!) anyways... for a while he was replacing me with masterbating... i think guys have a hard time andh e prolly doesnt tell u if he is, not saying he is just thinking of how guys are... anyways... i just dont understand why you are not having sex and if you cant have intercourse why you are not messing around?.. You should at least do that for the both of you so none of you gt the idea of doing it with someone else... anyways just my opinion.. but try and post why you are not supose to ahve sex..? |
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