need some help please

mark20062006 · Newbie Joined: 02 May 2006 Posts: 59

is it Usually for men not to pull there foreskin back while having sex?as soon as me penis goes hard it start to hurt if i try and pull back the foreskin.do women find this weird when having sex. as i have just meet me first girlfriend and i we both wont sex but i dont know if it is normal for men not to pull there foreskin back during sex. please help.

MarioB. · Newbie Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 137

What do you mean your foreskin won’t go back while having sex? Are you sure about it? I mean, you can’t have sex if your foreskin is not retracted, at least a little bit. There are some men, and you among them, whose foreskin cannot be totally pulled back and when the penis enters the vagina, it hurts a lot. Also is hurts when the penis is erected. You should talk with your doctor about circumcision, I thing things will be much easier for you. I myself had such problems before, my foreskin also refused to be retracted to the maximum, it hurt like hell every time I was masturbating or having sex, but later, by time, it became less painful and now everything is fine with it. You should also talk to some of your friends about it, if you feel like discussing it, you should share this with someone else, and your friends will certainly have something to tell you, at least you will share the experiences.

mark20062006 · Newbie Joined: 02 May 2006 Posts: 59

hi thanks for your help,what i meant was that when i have erection most of me foreskin covers the head of the penis.how come it would hurt if you had sex like this?do women find it funny if you cant pull your foreskin back?thanks for your help

Jb2006 · Newbie Joined: 07 May 2006 Posts: 12

mate i think you need a circumstision. Best see ya doc.

Tim · Supporter Joined: 03 Mar 2006 Posts: 234

Hi! I don’t think that circumcision is the best solution, I would rather say it is a last option in case nothing else works. Tell me, do you experience pain when you try to retract the foreskin down the shaft. Where exactly is it stuck?

This condition is called phimosis. Foreskin should detach from the head, sometime after birth although some guys don’t separate until they are 18 or so. If you are nearing this age, you may have a problem and may need doctor’s help.

If a doc suggests circumcision, I wouldn’t accept it since there are other options like stretching to try to find to detach the foreskin manually with the help of some corticosteroid creams that an urologist would prescribe.

Do you this that your foreskin opening is not stretchable enough or that there is something under the foreskin, like a piece of tissue, that has been preventing you to retract the foreskin? This could be frenulum, and it may be too short. Frenulum is that short piece of tissue that connects the foreskin and shaft of penis with the head.

Can you retract when not erected? Please, explain what happens during erection!

Jb2006 · Newbie Joined: 07 May 2006 Posts: 12

yes, there are other ways, but they dont allways work.

Theres nothing wrong with getting a circumstision. Its more hygenic in the long run as 'ya nob can breathe n dont get bull shit trapped unda the foreskin.' also it makes ya nob luck bigger.

mark20062006 · Newbie Joined: 02 May 2006 Posts: 59

hi there tim, i can pull it back a little half way then the tissue attaching the penis to the foreskin hurts.i am 16.when is erected it hurts all around the foreskin when i try pulling it back.do you know if it courses pain when having sex if you foreskin is not pulled back?i feel really funny going to me doctor about this is there any other options?thanks for your help

Jb2006 · Newbie Joined: 07 May 2006 Posts: 12

lol why feel silly. The doc aint guna giv a f*k. they will have seen all sorts of really small penis's, n even they they wont find funny.

The only thing ya can do that might work is to keep pulling ya foreskin back as much as possible n see if ya can pull it a bit further back than the previouse time till its either sorted or not. Id say 4-8weeks as been a good timeframe. Then if not, the circumstision is the only option.

crzyfl · Veteran Joined: 07 Apr 2006 Posts: 1167

It will cause a bit of pain during sex because as you enter the vagina the foreskin will be pushed back. If it is painful for you to pull it back then it will hurt during intercourse.

Although Jb2006 seems set on you getting a circumcision, it is not the only option. Circumcision is quite a painful procedure in adults, and personally I prefer the non-circumsized look, as do a lot of other girls.
I would recommend going to the doctor. Don't be embarrassed, it will be nothing new to them. There may be some way to remedy this without the extreme of surgery.
Hope this helps

bakura · Newbie Joined: 09 May 2006 Posts: 24

hi, i used to have that problem when i masterbated, it hurted and i had to stop every once and a while but i started pulling it down a little bit at a time and now i can pull even all the way down (as mutch possible of course)

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