not coping very well after third miscarriage

catsup · Newbie Joined: 22 Jun 2007 Posts: 2

This is the worst one yet, its been three weeks since m/c. I desperately want a baby and my emotions are all over the place. I'll be ok one moment and the next I'd be a snivelling wreck and the alarming weight gain doesn't help. I'm 30 years old and had ny 1st m/c at 27. I don't think my age is an issue and now i think there's something really wrong with me. I don't want to be childless and I've always wanted at least 3 or 4 children. Time isn't on my side anymore, but now I have been told by my Doc I will have to wait for the hospital to contact me about tests done to see what the problem is (NHS waiting lists could take 6months or more!). I want to try again soon but I don't think I can go through another m/c. To me it's the most painful thing that anyone can go through as you can feel so alone and misunderstood, unlike an illness or a death of a loved one because at least you get automatic sympathy and undertanding.

Is there anyone out there who understands, and has gone through the same?

portia17 · Silver Member Joined: 02 Aug 2007 Posts: 276

Dear catsup

My heart really goes out to you. I am so sorry what you are going through but please take the test to see what is going on

Hugs
Mary

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Dear Catsup

Sorry to hear about your m/c's - i myself am in the same boat
I have suffered 3 miscarriages 1@ 14wks, picked up at 1st scan, 1 at 6wks and another at 5wks (just last week)
I am feeling very tearful and just cannot understand why this keeps happening to me, all i have heard from the doctors is that it is very common and to keep trying, this just makes me so angry as the emotional turmoil is just too much for me and i like yourself am an emotional wreck, crying one minute and positive thiking the next
I wonder will i ever have a child of my own and ut seems like no one really understands the pain ...I feel so alone

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