Heather_2
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 Posted: 04/02/06 - 22:38 Post subject: |
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Hi there! You didn’t have sexual education as a subject in your school? How can a woman possible get pregnant without having sex? Do you know how a woman gets pregnant?
It is ok that you are still not having sex, it is obvious you are still not ready for it. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been with your boyfriend for a year or two, if you don’t feel like having sex, it is perfectly normal. Although, most of your friends probably already had sex, it doesn’t have to be like that for you. I lost my virginity when I was 19, so what?
When you do decide you want to have sex, you and your boyfriend should visit a clinic or read on the internet about contraception. This is very important, especially if you are both inexperienced. You may visit a gynecologist to ask about the right birth control pills for you. You should be taking bc pills on your own. It would be best to be tested by gynecologist to check on your liver, if it’s ok for you to use hormonal pills.
You may also decide to use condoms but it is highly unlikely that you will always have condoms beside you especially if you spend a lot of time with your boyfriend.
As for the orange vaginal discharge, I reckon you should have it checked. It is probably some kind of infection, probably bacterial vaginosis. Bacterial vaginosis infection is not related to sex. It can occur without having sex. This means that there is an overgrowth of certain bacteria in your vagina (we normally have bacteria and yeast living in our vaginas) that could be causing all sorts of problems like discharge, unpleasant odor, pain, itching, burning but it could be just the discharge like in your case.
Have you been using any medications lately? See a gynecologist in order to get rid of this discharge and infection. |
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