pain vaginal fingering

mala · Silver Member Joined: 01 Jan 2000 Posts: 272

I feel pain during vaginal fingering. I have no problem getting wet, but I feel uncomfortable with finger in me. My boyfriend thinks that he doesn’t know to do it right way. He became depressive. Do I have a problem?

malinde · Silver Member Joined: 14 Jun 2000 Posts: 239

Maybe you should try with additional lubricants.
Maybe he really pressures too much. Check out his nails. Try to explore your vagina with your own fingers. If you notice some other symptoms, like discharge or itching, visit your gyn. Pain during fingering may be caused by infection.

Abelia · Newbie Joined: 15 Nov 2006 Posts: 4

I have that problem too. It's not tht it hurts...jst feels really weird and uncomfortable. I upset my boyfriend because he thought it was hurting me when he tried to help me. Is this normal?

pouts · Newbie Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Posts: 145

my bf used to get sooooo sad, and one day i just got really into it, and it hurt for a minute but after that day it only hurts for like a second, then it feels good

Maowi · Newbie Joined: 23 Nov 2006 Posts: 2

i used to get like that.
it hurts briefly at first, but then settles down and feels pleasurable.

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omgsh its the most *** painful thing.......all my friends think so too i swaer its normal for it to hurt. u guys probably just cant remember.

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I'm 27 and I still hate it!

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i know the feeling. my boyfriend used to hurt me lots but one time i told hi to stop he just told me to relax and it actually stopped hurting and started feeling good. i think it was because i was tensing so much and i was nervous so u might want to just make sure your in a relaxing environment etc. and that your completely comfy with it. but then again it might not work loads of people ar different

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