problems with keeping an erection before sex

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ok i'm 18 years old and a virgin. My girlfriend and I are both ready to have sex and recently we tried. for watever reason i couldnt stay hard long enough to actually have sex. this happened twice already and it is very stressful and depressing. its not that it stays soft. it gets hard, but not hard enough to put it in...wow that sounded weird...but watever if someone could help that would be cool

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this exact same thing is happening to me right now. if someone could please shed some light on my situation that would be great

Ste · Newbie Joined: 06 Mar 2007 Posts: 96

I would imagine that it is probably because of the stress and worry. Perhaps instead of planning and saying "let's do it tonight", just kiss and cuddle etc and do it spontaneously one night when you feel comfortable. Also, maybe oral is a good way to get over any embrassment you may feel with eachother

healthdirectlive · Newbie Joined: 07 Jul 2007 Posts: 3

I think you should free your mind before sex. i used to hav this problem where i cant keep an effective erection when i was about to penetrate. however, i overcome this problem when me and my gf went for a vacation and somehow i didnt think a lot about "the need to keep a good erection" and it just worked!

Another method you could try is maybe you can have some herbal supplement before sex and it does help, both physically and mentally. You can find more information about this in my website. cheers and good luck. wish you all the best

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