questions about my 6 year old girl feeling herself

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Can a girl that is 6 years old reach an orgasm - I am concerned as a mother - If she could do that - the steps that i would need to take.

bethiecaute · Newbie Joined: 14 Dec 2006 Posts: 1

GrayAngel · Newbie Joined: 15 Dec 2006 Posts: 15

I completly agree with the last post. And I don't mean to jump to conclusions but I have a feeling your not to keen on masterbation. So let me just say, for a girl or a guy of any age to feel themselves is completely normal. In fact no masterbation can somtimes lead to medical problems. So don't be afraid your little girls gonna grow up to be some sort of pervert, its completely normal, and healthy.

Lola23 · Guest

you should not worry abot your daughter touching herself. In fact in my human sexuality class my professor said that it is totally normal. All kids actually do that. They do not do it in a sexual manner we just perseive it to be that way cause we are adult. Kids do it cause it just feels good and makes them relax it has nothing to do with reaching an orgasm. An orgasm is the end result of masturbation. but sometimes people connect the two to the point that it becomes the same thing.
Many studies has been done on this behavior on kids in preschool. both sexes do it. Expecially during nap time it makes them go to sleep faster. Human sexuality is a very normal thing , and actually starts from early as the age of two. if i was you I will be more concern if your child does not show any signs of beign curious of their own bodies.We think that it starts during puberty when in actuallity that is the end phase of it.
So don't worry mom you have a normal healthy child their is nothing completly wrong with it. You can get several books on human sexuality that explains this and several other things that will just blow your mind away. But of course in a good way.

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You should really worry about this. Your daughter probably will grow hair on the back of her hands and possibly even go blind by the time she reaches 7th grade. She obviously is going to become a lesbian if you don't do something quick. 6 year olds can reach orgasm, and unless you want to see her on girls gone wild, I would probably sit her down and tell her that she has to be asexual or Jesus won't love her. But what do I know? Just an idea. Good luck! Smile

janjouna · Newbie Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 1

to the "guest with no name". u have got to be kidding. u dont really believe that do you

leilanih · Newbie Joined: 02 Jun 2007 Posts: 1

I agree that it is natural and okay for your kids to explore themselves. I caught my daughter using her brothers vibrating toothbrush on her vagina yesterday and she is 6 years old. I told her that I didn't want her using objects down there only her hand and that it was okay but next time lock the door. She was a bit embarrassed about the toothbrush but I told her it was for her safety. I said that she might cut herself with the bristles so it is better if she doesn't use things like that.
It still kinda made my eyes pop open a little bigger though because the thought of your child masturbating is a shocker anyway.

Ninja1200 · Supporter Joined: 24 Jul 2007 Posts: 273 Location: USA

I think leilanih's advice was the best I've seen yet. I agree that we should let them know it is OK to explore but to do it in a safe manner and also in private.

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Guest with guest name, what you wrote is a joke right? Complete nonsense that didn't even make sense. Sexuality is perfectly normal at any age.....

slowjoy · Newbie Joined: 16 May 2008 Posts: 1

It has been suggested by some that guiding your children on ways to masturbate is a bad idea. The best time is when you are teaching her the right things. Teaching her ways to do masturbation. This is the time you need to start teaching not evading the topic. There is to many that say evade the subject or oh that's ok and then go off. NO. Turn around and sit with her about this and point out things that would be good. Out of all the things we let the school teach let this not be one that she will find in other ways. Why do girls get pregnant simple there looking for ways that feel good. Help her show her some things she can try. She needs to know she can come to you about this. Don't ignore this. She needs guidance at this time. Go to a store and get her a small hummer and talk with her more. It will be simpler to do next time she asks you about sexually related topics. There is nothing wrong with showing her stuff like what is what and be her parent by doing this.

Masturbation can bring trust that she can ask you about other things as well. Today you cant even move the Wright way or wrong way with out some one telling you how you should be teaching her. Don't let this area of sexual interest she has panic you. She may ask you the thing you will want to know about next time and then you will be exactly where you want to be to guide her.

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