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 Posted: 05/09/08 - 03:11 Post subject: really really nervous |
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hi im 16 (male) and have had a gf for 1.5 months rite now and i really like aher and she likes me (i hope  ) i really want ot take our relationshipp to the next level. but im not sure how shell take it and if ill geet completely shafted and if it will affect our frendship. if there are any girls out there that could help me with this it would be great.  |
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Hope your thinking about protection for you or her on this next level.
How she takes it depends on what you say being less direct is best so something like “how do you feel about being more intimate with each other?” if she says nothing make out that its nothing and talk about something else. |
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healthfreak88
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1.5 months is not a very long time.
You definitely need to talk to her about it.
If she doesn't feel comfortable doing it, don't pressure her.
Wait a few more months and then ask her again.
--LinZ |
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Kirk G
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| Posted: 05/09/08 - 18:41 Post subject: Really nervous about next level |
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At age 16, it's hard to know when to try to advance to the next level. You may think that you're ready, but you don't know if she is.
Now the way you do this is by talking. How you talk will convince her what you want...her body... her virginity... her respect... her love... or just a piece of ass.
No matter what the answer, if you decide to become sexually active, you will want to take precautions and protect you both. This means considering condoms BEFORE you get into a situation where you wish you had them.
Again, this is all putting the cart before the horse. The first thing to do is to let her know how much you like her, and, not to rush things. If your interest is sincere, she'll start thinking along your lines sooner or later.
From my personal experience, I tried to advance to the next level with a gal in college, and though we did have sex (my first time) it fractured the relationship. So, it doesn't always work to confirm the relationship. Ask yourself if this is a "deal breaker" for you. If she says "NO", is it the end of you as a couple? If she says "yes", is it the end of your relationship?
Good luck. |
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