relationship dating!what changes when you move in together?

cheri · Veteran Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Posts: 550

I am supposed to move in together with my boyfriend and I am pretty much "terrified" for until now our relationship was based on dating and it was fine to me. When we first start talking about moving in together I was thrilled but now I am scared is it going to affect my freedom I am used on to so much. The thing is what I should expect when we move in together does that means I am about to change all my habits?

blayne · Gold Member Joined: 08 Jun 2005 Posts: 489

He he it sure is that moving in together would change your habits-but only some of them and if you two make a deal before moving in together than your habits might change only partly. You know when you move in together you're not the center of the universe anymore meaning that now thereâ€™s another person that has it own needs, wishes and habits that are also about to be respect. Anyway the smart thing before you quit this relationship dating habit and pass on to moving in together tale is that you two first discuss openly all the aspects of your future life under the same roof-you know it's not that simply as it may sound. And you don't seem to be ready for that yet, it seems you are not willing to give up your freedom still so I think you better reconsider it again and if you figure out you are not ready than I suggest you better delay moving in together for some other period and keep on with relationship dating for quite some time yet. Take care!

relationship dating!what changes when you move in together?

LIFEFORM SOCIAL COMMUNITY NETWORK