side effects of abortion in teenagers

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How dare you people be so judgemental??? I HAD no choice but to have one done...My baby that was very much wanted had Trisomy 18, 21 and Cystic hygroma and hydrops ( look them up) It was also a life threatning situation for me...so f*$% off and dont judge people...you never know what you will face in YOUR life.

scaredteen92 · Newbie Joined: 01 Apr 2007 Posts: 27

i'm 12 weeks pregnant today and my baby has a heartbeat and brain ways it also has toes and fingers which i can see in the ultarsound.... i believe it is killing if you just don't want it... i understand if you get one becasue you were rapped or need to get it so you don't hurt yourself or your unborn child because of a medical reason ... i carry the genes for cystic fibrosis....i would do anything to keep the child if my boyfriend carries the gene too but i don't think i could put my child through that pain...yes the abortion will be painful both for me and for my boyfriend....

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how could yoo av an abortion! esp after 11 weks then it is a living thing
at three week it has a heart 6 yoo can pick up brain waves and 11 it has all organs and they r workin! how could yoo destroy tht?

Manz · Newbie Joined: 18 Sep 2007 Posts: 1

I have had a termination too and I agree it should not be used just as a birth control. I had mine after I was raped and I believe it should be used as a last case scenario. When I had my termination done it happened just a day before I was 12 weeks and I was pregnant with twins. Everyday I wonder what they may have been and what they would be like. After the termination I hated seeing pregnant people because I really wanted to keep them but didn't want to remember how they were conceived. I now have 2 girls 3 and 2 and one on the way. It is entirely up to you if you have a termination as you are the one who has to live with the decision.
Good luck.

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abortion is not "killing" the baby...I belive it is ok to decide to have an abortion. No one can judge this topic until them thereself is in this sort of situation. Its absolutely horrible. So all you hyprocytes should try to keep you mouths shut. You would have an abortion if you had an unexpected pregnancy...especially if you were underage...leave the teens and other woman alone.

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Just so you know,
Everyone has their on choice to get an abortion, or not to. Personally, I found out i was pregnant... I also attend college, I dont pay for anything myself, except when i work over the summer. When i found out, i freaked, because having a child at my age, with no proper education, and no way of providing a safe and proper home for a child, i wouldnt bring a child into the world knowing its mother couldnt take care of it. Sorry. Also, my parents are very strict and believe i should have my education before I decide to even get married. and this i believe also. I wasn't planning on getting pregnant, infact i was taking birth control and still got pregnant. ..Now that i have had the abortion, i still believe it was the right decision to make. Granted, i am still in pain, and i have headaches all the time. I will make it. and I dont regret my decision.. if you live like with 'what if'... you live your life with regrets. and thats no way to live. be thankful for what you have...
just my advice but, make sure you research everything before you make your decision.. dont let others influence you.

xFluffyx · Newbie Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Posts: 1

I’m disgusted and hurt at some of the posts on here. Who has the right to judge what is right and wrong when it comes to abortion? Everyone has their own opinion but please, be a little tactful. Some of the people on here have been through hell and back having a termination, yet, some mindless individuals who haven’t got a clue what pain and hurt those that have had a termination go through, sitting behind their little PC screen writing drivel which they know nothing about!
I am 7 weeks pregnant and me and my boyfriend used contraception but I still fell pregnant. I have chose to have a termination because I can not give this baby the life it deserves. Nobody has the right to say I am “killing” this baby because technically, I am not. The foetus has no feelings until after 28 weeks and at the stage I am at… it is only tissue. Having that slight reassurance that I am not hurting the foetus gives me some hope. Some of you may disagree, and I expect most of you that do are those who have never been in this position, let alone similar. Well, I hope the judgemental ones never are because it is the most painful and heartbreaking experience that I will ever ensure but a decision I have had to make due to my personal circumstances which I do not have to go in to and explain to “some” (not all) of you shallow and selfish people.
I know this experience will be traumatising in the least and extremely heartbreaking and painful but I know it’s the decision which is right for me.

The wise one in detroit · Newbie Joined: 23 Oct 2007 Posts: 1

The ddesision is up to you you have the right to do whatever it is that you want to do with or to your unborn child. However when that question is aroused it always tends to raise some thoughts that could really hurt you and if you want the best advice talk to your mother i just had to tell my mom that i was sexually active and pregnant and she took it horribly at first but after a couple of days everything was okay and now our relationship is stronger than ever because i feel that i can actually come to her and tell her waht is going on with me and my body. And to be totally honest with you i was going to have my boyfriend sneak and get the money then i was going to sneak and get the abortion then i was going to sneak and hide the side effects for a couple of days but threre is only so much sneaking that you can do in one day. Now my mother understands what i am going trhrough i no longer hide things like throwing up and hatiing the smell of her cigarettes. I am scheduled for the abortion next tuesday and i think that it is prbably the best decision i have mad so far

MEEKERS · Newbie Joined: 29 Oct 2007 Posts: 1

Oh by the way just to let the people out there who are idiots know..... an abortion is killing an unborn child. wheather you use protection or not and got pregnant any how it happened for a reason. It doesn't matter if you in school or too young or whatever the excuse my be, there are other options. And whoever believes that a baby doesn't have a heartbeat until 28 days ummmmm do some more research, I found out I was pregnant with twins at 2 weeks and heard both of their heart beats. So that's that. By the way not to brag but I am a mother of 6 and I had my first when I was in high school, I finished and now I am going to college. It's possilbe to have kids and get an education so how bout we start using a different excuse. as for anything else just to let you know that if your going to have sex there is always that possiblity that you will get pregnant, so if your not responsible enough to take care of a kid than don't have sex. It's as easy as that.
Bottom line grow up and if you don't want the baby give it to some one who does, DON'T MURDER IT!!!!!!!

knonelonely · Newbie Joined: 06 Nov 2007 Posts: 1

In my opinion abortion is wrong. You can justify it all you want to. It is killing a human being. We were once eggs too but we evolved. If your parents decided to get an abortion you would not be here expressing your thoughts on abortion. If anything abortion is an outlet. "I made you but have no time to care for you so I'm going to kill you." Murdering a child in the womb is the same as murdering a 5 yr old or a 20 yr old.

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