I have big, thick labia lips! Read!

I no I no, it's normal, alot of girls have it, blahblahblahh. I HATE them. I'm around the age were I want to start doing things with boys. But I'm scared they'll be completly grossed out, and what if they go around telling people. (I no what your thinking.. "then don't do things with boys like that") well I"m a teenager and I doubt alot of boys know about bigger and smaller labia. They see porn and think every girl should look like that! I don't know what to do and I find myself constanlty thinking about it. I feel like I'm in a corner.

I know how you feel because I used to feel exactly the same, I used to hate my large labia. I've been with a few boys since my first experience and only one of them complained, notably, he was CRAP.

It's only the insecure boys, the inexperienced boys that generally don't know how women differ, however as you get older boyfriends will come and go, so may be jerks and some won't. the best way around this is to wait until you've found someone who truly loves and respects you, and that you feel the same about.

Unfortunately when I was younger I put myself in the situation where I allowed myself to be treated like a piece of meat, and "wanting to do stuff with boys" is in no way worth the hard feelings from there. If you're curious, talk to close friends, family, search the internet (porn is hardly useful though) or go to the library. there are lots of ways to satisfy yourself for now.

You, just like I have now, will find some one that LOVES your vulva as well as you. -interesting fact, more men like big labia than those who like none-existent pussies!