penis pimple enlarged lymph nodes under armpits

penis pimple enlarge lymph nodes under armpits penis pimple 3 times in 3 years 1 on scrotum all went away no problem but this time i popped it and it is an open sore lymh nodes under armpits enlarged greatly and went away occured twice in 6 months what is it and how do i treat it also many ingrown hairs in pubic area by my waistband believed to be caused by my boxers they have subsided but they are small black patches now looks like a black and blue that wont go away smaller than a dime whats happening to me???

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