threesome & effect on a relationship

gougeon · Silver Member Joined: 12 Sep 2001 Posts: 246

Hi. I would like to know your opinion about threesomes. What are their effects on relationships? IS it GOOD or BAD?

meier · Silver Member Joined: 08 Feb 2001 Posts: 274

I tried it once, the W-M-W version, and I could say that it was great. Who am I kidding, it rocked! I did it with my girlfriend and another girl, her friend. And what happened? Whenever I would see her, all I can remember was her vagina stuck in my mouth. So I cheated my girlfriend and ruined a good relationship. I am an idiot.

rad313play · Newbie Joined: 17 May 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Michigan

This was one of the worst things that you can do. We have been married for 30 + years and my husband and I did this and I have become the forgotten one! AND THAT WAS NOT SUPPOSE TO HAPPEN!

My husband can not give both woman the same amount of attention - actually he blows me off a tad bit more cause of her being "new" BS!!!! If anyone should get more attention it should be me as his wife and allowing for this to happen.

Because of all that has taken place over this "threesome" I WOULD NOT tell anyone to go for it! In fact I wish it never happened!

Our marriage because of my jealousy - insecurities - loneliness - low self esteem - whatever has really gone down to the pits!!!

DON'T DO IT!!

rad313play · Newbie Joined: 17 May 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Michigan

I have to say DO NOT DO IT!

I have been married 30 + yrs and I can honestly say it has damaged our marriage. I did think at first that it could be a good thing bring some excitement into our marriage not that we really needed it but couldn't hurt but my husband has no idea how to please 2 women and focus on both women and becasue of that I am the one that got left out.

I guess you can say it was because of me being jealous, left out, low self esteem, insecurities, whatever the reasons might be its messed up.

My advise is DO NOT LET IT HAPPEN.

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