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My son is 4 and hates going to his dad's house! Anyone else have this problem?? Could it be a separation issue with him leaving mommy (me) or what could it be??

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Shining Star
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You know your ex - what is he like? Why did you two split? 

Could be just separation anxiety or could be something worse. I don't want to scare you, but it's your son after all... 

I assume he already speaks and could explain why he doesn't want to go. But don't just ask him "why".

 

Ask him - does dad hit you? does he scream? does he touch you?  ... horrible, I know, but do assume the worst ... 

if you don't want to be so brutally honest with your son... maybe you could ask him... what was the best / worst thing that happened to you today?

Maybe it's not his dad, maybe the issue is with someone else ...   

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