unprotected fist time sex!don't know whether he could penetr

Hi,

i had my first time sex, unprotected, really afraid anything bad might happen to me and him. i had my period on the first day. i couldn't feel anything nice except much pain. i asked him and he said he is having a good time, but i didn't. Even i'm not sure if he could penetrate me. i was bleeding little, and not sure if it is my period or just bleeding because of sex. after i went to bathroom and i had more blood than normal. i had so much pain and i didn't enjoy at all. i was almost crying, so i don't know if he could enjoy. i knew that i didn't know anything, but had sex. both of us seemed that we don't know much. Help me!

YOU LOST YOUR VIRGINITY.... after you first have sex you bleed.

know why?


because your vagina wasent so open like it was tight and closed..

so when a man sticks his junk in your vagina it opens it up, stretching.
meaning bleeding will occor.

IT HURTS ALOT EVEN FOR BOY..

the above post is misinformed. as a girl, losing your virginity doesn't necessarily hurt or cause you to bleed at all. if it does this is generally due to the hymen rupturing and has nothing to do with how tight you are (unless you're tense because of something called vaginismus). i'd say in your case it's probably the former (hymen) and possibly in combination with the latter being caused by you being nervous.

please, always use protection unless you want to get pregnant. STDs may also be a concern if your boyfriend has had previous partners. i reccommend he uses a condom and if he has never used one before (even if he has) that he look up proper condom use. they are very effective when used properly. i've had sex probably ~150 times using a condom and have only had one break which i can safely say was due to me not using it properly (i didn't squeeze the air out of the tip properly to allow room for ejaculate) and that was the second one i used.

also you should be aware that it is still possible to get pregnant during your menstrual period so condoms should be used especially if you are not on a hormonal means of contraception.