unprotected sex right after period. depression. anxiety. HEL

my boy friend and i had sex the day after and 3 days after, and a week after my period ended using no birth control and he came inside me. the intercourse only lasted 10 seconds each time, and i'm not even sure if he fully came inside, because he's been having some issues and it gets soft and comes the second after he "gets inside me". this was feb 22-mar1. i started to take birth control pills a few days after our unprotected sex, but started to feel bloated and weird like i have in the past, so after only a week of taking the pills, i stopped this past monday. i have semi-irregular period (depression tends to either stop it completely or come a little late or a littel early depending on the month), and i'm not supposed to start it until next week but i'm TERRIFIED. i get really horrible anxiety and i convince myself that i'm pregnant.


now, i've been depressed extra lately due to some serious issues going on in my life (mom's abusive boyfriend now in jail from beating her, trying to figure out my educational future/life, ect).

if after taking birth contol for only one week, and then stopping, can this still mess up my body? this linked with depression, can that cause some weird mental thing i'm experiencing? i have a lump in the back of my throat from worrying, bit of sore back, headaches, and i feel nausious after thinking that its possible to get pregnant. i usually feel this way when i get anxiety.but i havnt technically missed my period yet.

its been 4 days since i stopped taking the birth conrol pills (after only taking then for 7 days) and i havn't started my period yet. i'm also very depressed. when should i concider taking an at home pregnancy test? in another week?

i know i'm stupid for this, goddamnit i know, but ive had unprotected sex in the past and never gotten pregnant. i hope i am just freaking myself. this is a serious reality check. thank you for anyone who was nice enough to read this and respond =)[/b]

Birth control pills can offten offset a womens body until they are used to being on them and even after stopping them...They can sometimes cause pregnancy syptoms, even though you may not be pregnant....It is possible for you to become pregnant even if intercourse lasted for 10seconds, this can be do to precum which contains sperm....They always suggest waiting a month after starting birthcontrol before haveing unprotected intercourse....The pills may not be as affective until they are in your system and working...I would suggest waiting about a day or so before your next period to take a home pregnancy test..If this is neg wait another week and then test again just to be sure...If you are going through depression right now, you could talk to your doctor about treatment for this, this can help you live a more healthier life, you can be happy again without all the stress...You dont need to worry about your mom getting hurt anymore, her abuser is in jail and cant do anymore harm to her or her family..Also Convincing yourself that you are pregnant only adds more stress to your life, dont worry about it until you find out if you are or not..If you are there are also other options out there if this is not the time for you to have a baby....Counseling is also a good thing to look into as well, they can provide someone to talk to let things out that is on your mind right now, they can also give advice as to what to do as well....Your not stupid you just made a choice that you thought was the right thing to do....If you are worried about becoming pregnant I would suggest getting back on birth control, on a regular basis until the time is right for you to have a baby..Also think about what else I wrote and decide what is right for you..If you need anything else let us know, we are here to help give advice as well as someone to talk to if you need to get something off your mind..Dont be afraid to get help...Everyone needs it at one point in time....I wish you well in all that you decide to do in life.....