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sparkle2 · Newbie Joined: 19 Feb 2008 Posts: 4

I have been having unprotected sex for the past 7 years of my life with 2 different men when i was in relationships with them,one of which i am still seeing currently.obviously i got them checked out before.During sex,they both always pulled out in time and ive never been pregnant.is it possible that im infertile as ive heard that even the precum has thousands of sperms.i mean 7 years...wat are the chances of not getting pregnant.either im infertile or im very lucky.Also I should add that i do bleed very heavily with very bad pains during my period but i come on after 28 days exactly,always have.i have tried all the tested means but none of them worked.the gyne now thinks only other reason as endometriosis for which i need a laproscopy and im still undecided on that as it is an invasive procedure.

Mayo · Silver Member Joined: 03 Mar 2006 Posts: 330

You are not necessarily infertile. I have had unprotected sex with my boyfriend for 4 years. He would always withdraw and i never got pregnant. The moment we decided to have a child if it happens (so we were deliberately trying) meaning he wouldn't withdraw every time-I got pregnant.

Four years is also a long time.

Do you already know that you have endometriosis or is your doc just suggesting?

Your periods are regular, so I don't think your infertile. I also hope you don't have endometriosis, I know how annoying that can be.

sparkle2 · Newbie Joined: 19 Feb 2008 Posts: 4

Thanks for that.No the gyne at the hospital is suggesting it as we have run out of options.i havent got the operation done yet coz thats the only way to find out and im scared...not of what i mite find...of the operation! also what if they dont find endometriosis then what?dead end...u know wat i mean?

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