was a straight man but now gay thoughts seem nice .anybody?

blade118 · Newbie Joined: 17 Jul 2007 Posts: 15

hey huys hear i am again, my ex says i am staright and have an ocd with this, but i am really having sexual thoughts about men everyday of my life, i mean 24/7 i cant stop thinking about it, i mean i have looked at gay porn and styuff and thought well that isnt bad i wouldnt mind it to try it, but what happens if i did it and liked ut and stuff, i have only ever had sex with women, i am 22 and have had 7 women never a man, what is wrong with people. i went on this homosexual ocd site, and people saud i cleasrly have it with the way i talk, but i feel that its something i want to do these days, please help. By the way if this is something that i shouldnt be talking about on here please tell me because i would hate to be talking about this if i wasnt allowed. thanx

Some-Teenage-Dude · Newbie Joined: 01 Nov 2007 Posts: 104

I believe that if you think of such thoughts and think of them as "normal" and "good" or even "acceptable" your body and mind will believe it and once you go too far, you cant go back..

wat my advice would be.. (this maybe weird, but i dont know how else to change thoughts) .. when you think these thoughts, think of them as "dirty" (and i mean disease dirty, not sexy dirty) and pinch yourself when they come into your head.. then if they come into your head remember the pain u felt and associate the pain with gay thoughts, and the "filthy disguisting disease" but remember its the thoughts that are disguisting and you have to rid them..

men may not be filthy and may even be cleaner than women!, but if you believe that by touching them, you will get infections and ...(think of the most disguisting thoughts you could have)..

that should keep you straight..., unless you want to be homosexual ofcoarse, or refuse to believe that man is unclean.

this post seems very old fashioned and against homosexuality...
but it isnt really.. its just to keep straight people on the straight and narrow..

dont be offended by this, its just a mental way of thinking that i believe, and no one can prove that im wrong or right... its just my theory...
but if you have a fear of becoming homosexual try it..

think back when it was considered evil and discuisting to be gay...

now think of the ammount of homosexual people today..

i believe that because of so much publication, and even popularity, of homosexuality people have left a message in their brain saying that its normal to be gay and homosexual acts are even more exciting and new than hetrosexual acts... (some people even achieve better orgasms while masterbating to homosexual thoughts, than hetro...)

now i will say again, that these are just my theories....

but i guess in our world today, bisexual it the thing to be...

i dont have a problem with gay people at all.. but if one of your main goals in life is to have children, and your homosexual, you are f*ck*d..

please read this, and post your oppinions.. they really do matter..

healthfreak88 · Newbie Joined: 17 Dec 2006 Posts: 146 Location: Georgia

gay couples can still have children--i didn't totally miss the point of this post, but this one thing just stood out to me...

males can adopt a child or have a female friend have them a child
and /or
with myself being a lesbian, I plan to have one of my very good male friends have sex with me...my girlfriend wants to adopt a child...

just a thought

I also believe that you can only SUPPRESS homosexual feelings...once you realize that you are gay/bi, you can never be truly straight again...

but again that is an opinion...

topics like these are really about opinion...there is no medical proof on how to stop becoming gay...

blade118 · Newbie Joined: 17 Jul 2007 Posts: 15

with that post are you saying that i am supressing these homosexual thoughts

healthfreak88 · Newbie Joined: 17 Dec 2006 Posts: 146 Location: Georgia

Well, I suppose. It's really a general statement and can be applied to you, but naybe not so much.

I know that's confusing...it confused me to type it.

I believe though, that you can "forget" about these sort of feelings, but they are always gonna be there in the back of your mind.

It's really hard to explain in writing. I do so much better face to face with people. Lol.

blade118 · Newbie Joined: 17 Jul 2007 Posts: 15

it would be good to talk to you via email just you and i if thats okay and ur alright with thta, about what i am going through

healthfreak88 · Newbie Joined: 17 Dec 2006 Posts: 146 Location: Georgia

I'm fine with that, but I'm not really sure how to give you my e-mail address, because they're not allowed on here.

Some-Teenage-Dude · Newbie Joined: 01 Nov 2007 Posts: 104

you could live with these thoughts, but i still think you could beat them out of your head..

i can...

healthfreak88 · Newbie Joined: 17 Dec 2006 Posts: 146 Location: Georgia

Ok, I figured out how you can get my email address. What you do is go to SEARCH and put in healthfreak88 in the SEARCH FOR AN AUTHOR box. It will bring up all of my posts. Click on my name and it will bring up my profile. You will find my email address here. When you email me title it something that lets me know it's you because sometimes I just delete stuff if it doesn't look like it's important.

Jordo012 · Newbie Joined: 31 May 2008 Posts: 2 Location: Ireland

listen dude ...maybe your going thorough some hormonal phase or something or maybe your bi-sexual but your only realised it now or maybe your adventurous Very Happy

was a straight man but now gay thoughts seem nice .anybody?

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