what is the cause for premature ejeculation

kaila · Silver Member Joined: 21 Oct 2000 Posts: 269

I have been masturbating ever since I was 13 and I am 27 now. I have never had any problems up till now. I have been sexually active since I was 22 and have ended up a long relationship a six months ago. I haven’t had sexual activities since then but two weeks ago I got together with this great girl and she was up for it, we started having sex and I couldn’t hold my ejaculation. It was weird because I have learned to do that while I was with my previous girlfriend. I read somewhere that over-masturbation could lead to such side effects but what is over-masturbation? I have been doing it regularly since I was 13 but I know a bunch of other guys who have been doing it just as much and have no problems what so ever. I was also wondering if this was happening because I haven’t had sex in a long time. All replies and suggestions are welcome! Thanx

vilhelmina · Silver Member Joined: 29 Mar 2002 Posts: 301

Although there could be numbers of reasons of premature ejaculation I would link yours to anxiety. It is quite possible that you have a problem being with this new girl, maybe thinking if you would be good and the more you think about it, the bigger chances of failure. Do you have the same problems with masturbation? If this doesn’t happen with masturbation, then it is highly likely anxiety, which you need to overcome on your own. I would suggest relaxing and enjoying not just shooting. Have fun first! However, if the same problem occurs during masturbation, you may decide to see a doctor and have your prostate checked, possibly PC muscles, blood-pressure, thyroid gland, etc. As for the over-masturbation, it is not that recognized in western medicine and considering you haven’t been over doing it, I would just forget about it.

what is the cause for premature ejeculation

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