wow...what does this mean?

WorriedSickIndiana · Posted: 04/20/07 - 22:13 Post subject: wow...what does this mean?

my daughter is 14. the other day, she asked me to come to her room, that she wanted to show me something. I go in there and she jumps down on the bed, pulls her shorts up really high to where she can reach her vagina (those tiny little booty shorts I think they're called) then she takes a can of body spray and starts masturbating...I was stunned as to where i couldn't even move. she's 14 years old! One thing, I couldn't believe she could fit something that size up there. is she having sex? I know she fingers herself multiple times a night..but a body spray can...? and also what would posess her to do such a thing? call me in there to show me that? should I take her to see a psychiatrist? or just try and forget it happened? I don't disaprove of her masturbating, I encourage it and she knows that so I don't think it was to try and be rebelious...I don't know why she would do it! It was the single most weird/disturbing thing I've ever seen. Please help

ImmortalOne · Gold Member Joined: 05 Jan 2007 Posts: 437

I would consider taking her to see a therapist, the fact that she's using objects worries me because of the harm it can cause. But talk to her, explain to her that it isn't acceptable to do it infront of you or anyone else, and offer to perhaps get her an adult "toy" so that she can't do anything to hurt herself (cans and foreign objects can cause a lot of damage). It is very possible that she's had sex or having sex when you aren't around, so talk to her thoroughly about safe practices and offer to help her get some protection. The Depo Shot, the female condom, IUD's, and things of that nature, would be a good start, as well as condoms and spermacides.

shizznit · Newbie Joined: 03 May 2007 Posts: 38

shes oFiosly extremely horny and wants u to no about it maybe u should i dunnno....get her a sex buddie. lol btw im a 13 yr old boy i masturbate reguraly i love it dont send her to a theropist just give her some toys lol i no it sounds weird but give it a try

idkanymore · Newbie Joined: 20 Jul 2007 Posts: 13

i think i like ur daughter Smile

haha but a can? thats weird, shes probly proud that she can do that. because u encourage masturbation.
She probly thought she would get a different reaction from u then what u gave her.

daisy33loca · Posted: 08/08/07 - 09:32 Post subject:

I am having a difficult time believing the truth to this original post. If she did in fact call you in and do that, then yes she needs some help by a therapist quick. I am not sure why as a parent one would stand there and watch their child do that, or even mention knowing about their child fingering themselves multiple times a night?
Everyone at one point or another masturbates, but there needs to be some modesty and knowledge that there is a time nad a place for everything. These kinds of things need to be done privatley and with modesty. Obviously if this post is 100% true, the family needs some professional help.

somehelpplease · Newbie Joined: 17 Sep 2007 Posts: 20

do not send her to a therapist she will hate you im 13 if my parents sent me to a therapist i'd run away.
she probally doesnt know if most girls use objects just buy her a toy you'll never hav that problem again if you do tell her you dont wanna see her do it. about the sex thing thats a probaly if she masturbates that often .dont worry about the sex anyway its normal for teens

wow...what does this mean?

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