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melman94
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 Posted: 08/20/07 - 17:18 Post subject: ya hey when is it "okay to lose my virginity" |
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| hey im 13 and i have wondered what sex feels like for some time now, i was wondering tho if its un-healthy to have sex at my age well plz reply |
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daisy33loca
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| Posted: 08/20/07 - 19:40 Post subject: |
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I would like to offer you some advice and ideas to think about first.
Never take having sex lightly.
If you have any doubts about being ready, you probably are not ready.
Sex does not make you cool, nor does it MAKE a guy love you or bring you anything else.
Sex is supposed to be between 2 people whom love eachother, are commited and mature enough to handle EVERYTHING that comes with that responsability. Sex is an adult thing, not childs play.
Never allow anyone to force you or try to overly convince you to have sex .. It is your body and you need to respect it now.
IF he says he will love you or love you more if you do it with him... he is lying, that phrase and sex do not go hand in hand if you are not in a commited and serious relationship... a relationship is much deeper than just dating for a couple days or weeks.
IF you chose to do it, get on birthcontrol first, meaning the pill or other reliable method PLUS use condoms, since the pill does NOT protect you from STDs or STIs or other bad infections that can happen from having sex.
IF you feel you are ready to have sex, then be adult enough and mature enough to get on birth control and that also includes talking to a parent or other trusted adult. IF you feel you need to hide it or lie about it, then you are 110% NOT READY to have sex. |
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MisterHo
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| Posted: 08/21/07 - 01:39 Post subject: |
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| Yeah, what that guy said..but..13..you are definitely way too young. It doesn't really matter if you love a guy to death. In today's society, you are too young to be havin sex. You have a lot of growing up to do still... mentally and physically. I can guarantee you right now that if you have sex anytime soon, then youre gonna regret it when you grow up. Trust me. I know. |
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