Okay so I'm a 13 year old girl (virign btw) and lately I've been getting a lot fof sexaul urges, my friend suggests to masturbate but I honestly don't know what to use and how to do it without hurting too much. I don't mind breaking my hymen and I know that it should hurt a little but can someone help me on what to use and how to do it.?!?!?!?!?!?!
Your only 13 maybe you should wait a little bit maybe when you 14.
Use your middle finger of either hand and gently in a circular motion rub your clitoris. If you do it too hard you'll just stop because it is highly sensitive. That is the only purpose for the clitoris (sexual pleasure) even though it's not inside the vagina, that's where you'll feel it. Or you can always use a dildo. They sell very small discreet ones at Wal-Mart. It's over by the Tampons and maxi pads. You don't have to put the dildo inside you. Rub that on your clitoris too. If it hurts, just stop and do it gentler.
You can get one of those toothbrushes with the rubber handles and rub that on your clit if you feel uncomfortable with getting an actual vibrator or dildo.