So, my wonderful husband is somewhat of a germaphobe and is always worried about cleanliness. This applies to certain acts in the bedroom and has caused some difficulty for me. I am willing to please him orally and, though I don't exactly love doing it, I am glad that he enjoys it. He, however, doesn't want anything to do with oral contact with my vagina. This is really disappointing for me as it is very sexually satisfying for me. I can't go through the rest of my life without this!! Help! Any information would be helpful!
Ask yourself is it that important for you? Xxx
If I were you I would educate your husband. Being more familiar with the vagina might make him more comfortable with the act. And take baby steps!