My boyfrienn wants me too, and i mean i want it for him so bad. and everytime i saay that i might i always change my mind and he gets disappointed. i tried too tell him that i was nervous and its my first time and that i dont want to make a fool out of myself because i want too be perfect, i never want to mess uup in front of him. he tells me that ill be amazing because i was at all my other firsts and that he would never make fuun of me. idk what too do, im so scared and i reaaly dont know how... can anyone pleaase help?!
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umm do what you think is right, but don't treat it like a straw in a frosty @ wendys...
-Ze Eric
-Ze Eric
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It's your first time, you can't be expected to be perfect. The whole idea of growing up works on a basis of "trial and error", so the best thing to do is just try it out, see if you like it, if not, stop, if you do, ask him what you can do to make it better for him if it aint 'perfect'. Basic advice for a blowjob;
1. try not to use too much teeth, a bit is great for stimulation, such as lightly dragging your teeth over his penis, but otherwise, too much pressure with teeth can just be painful
2. using your tongue to massage the head of the penis feels great as it has the most nerve endings in the area, but don't neglect the shaft and possibly scrotum if you want to go there
3. move at your own pace, don't let him gag you unless you want him to, practice can help you get more in your mouth, so go slow at first
4. keep it safe and hygienic, having a shower before doing anything sexual can be help stimulation, do you want to smell a dirty penis? also, don't poke your eye out
5. Have fun!
Drew.
1. try not to use too much teeth, a bit is great for stimulation, such as lightly dragging your teeth over his penis, but otherwise, too much pressure with teeth can just be painful
2. using your tongue to massage the head of the penis feels great as it has the most nerve endings in the area, but don't neglect the shaft and possibly scrotum if you want to go there
3. move at your own pace, don't let him gag you unless you want him to, practice can help you get more in your mouth, so go slow at first
4. keep it safe and hygienic, having a shower before doing anything sexual can be help stimulation, do you want to smell a dirty penis? also, don't poke your eye out
5. Have fun!
Drew.
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Alright thanks,
im still sortaa nervous.. i dont know why.
i see myself as being ready and i feel ready,
but when it comes too doing it i chicken out..
:/
im still sortaa nervous.. i dont know why.
i see myself as being ready and i feel ready,
but when it comes too doing it i chicken out..
:/
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:-) when I was with my girlfriend (we broke it off a while back) we took everything slow. I respected her wishes with things and if she was unsure about something, we'd wait until she was confident to do it. Just take things slow if you have to, just enjoy your time together!
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you really need to do it when he wants it , not when you think you can do it perfectly ... its a long road of trial and error , and a good bj needs to be performed with a submissive attitude and respect , there is no magic "way" , every man has diferent preferances .... you'll notice when you do it better because he will cum faster ... when you do it poorly it will take much longer.
My current bf is not so much intrested in how fast or slow i perform , hes more turned on by sounds and taking it very deep to gag on it , its messy and noisy and thats what gets him of ... and fast :-)
My current bf is not so much intrested in how fast or slow i perform , hes more turned on by sounds and taking it very deep to gag on it , its messy and noisy and thats what gets him of ... and fast :-)
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the first time i ever gave a bj it took me over an hour to build up the courage to do it lol its definitly nerve wracking, but there is a first for everything and nobody is expected to be perfect at first. just do what you feel comfortable with doing and dont let him pressure you if your not ready. it will come to you naturally lol you cant get advice on how to do it. let him tell you what he likes and what he dislikes.
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As long as you enjoy pleasing him and he knows how to please you then you'll be fine. Enjoy and take your time listen to his moans and feel your way through. Like shortdrew said its trial and error. Good luck!
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There is no shortcut to a great blowjob, a good one maybe but it all takes practice. If you don't start doing it, you will never get some practice in to be any good at it. Learn some tips I read at
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Lol first time Idid it.. he cumed in my mouth ha. And Iwas nervous also but then I got turned on and hell Iwasnt nervous anymore.. I say just do it when u feel ur ready to.
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